Allow? Dangerous phrasing there lol.

Which, I get it, there is a degree of permission needed because for some people, sharing nudity or outright sexual content with outsiders is a violation of the relationship. And, in reality, if there's not an agreement on doing something like that, it's going to drive a wedge in the relationship, so some kind of compromise is necessary, even if it isn't outright "permission". I just don't think in terms of another adult needing me to allow them to do something unless it directly interferes in my life.

That being said, my objection wouldn't be because of the nudity or sexualized content. It would be the risks involved in how data and images can be weaponized now. I have been damn near unreasonable about pictures of me even being taken, much less put online. I've cut ties with people over it, including a fight to keep it from happening. I don't fucking play with it.

The way things are going, those pictures my hypothetical partner puts out there can turn into a nightmare, even if their face isn't in them. Facial recognition isn't the only thing that can be done with the kind of computer power out there now.

So, I would absolutely flip shit over it. I might agree eventually if they didn't do any of the photography at home, but it would bother the hell out of me even then.

But it wouldn't be about the nature of the content. That's not my business, even with my wife, as long as it doesn't otherwise violate our agreements as a couple. And I can't see how doing it via a company like that would. I'm not aware of everything involved though.