while she is a wonderful person, she just isn’t the right one for me specifically
That's what you tell her. It's totally appropriate to want someone closer to you in physical needs.
I don't mean to sound cynical, but at 39, she's probably wondering if she'll ever find somebody long term. That realization is probably one of the things that's driving her to stay attached, even when it's obvious that there are serious compatibility problems. And it's going to result in some strong emotions around this breakup.
That's what you tell her. It's totally appropriate to want someone closer to you in physical needs.
I don't mean to sound cynical, but at 39, she's probably wondering if she'll ever find somebody long term. That realization is probably one of the things that's driving her to stay attached, even when it's obvious that there are serious compatibility problems. And it's going to result in some strong emotions around this breakup.
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