Why do I lose my temper if I'm blocked from a community or by a user?

3 months ago by GrayBackgroundMusic to c/nostupidquestions

Why do I give even a second thought to the reaction of other online users (who may not even be human) when I get blocked? They're strangers. None of this matters. It will not affect my physical life in any way what so ever. My rational side is absolutely boggled at my emotional side. (additionally, I know I'm not the only one but I prefer to ask questions like this in first person.)

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Alcyonaria 15 points 3 months ago

If you have adhd, rejection sensitive dysphoria. It'll make you care about the opinions of people you'd kill if you met

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flabberjabber 4 points 3 months ago

Adding to this, I recently learned that ADHD rejection sensitive dysphoria is actually often some kind of dissociative disorder on the OSDD/PTSD/DID spectrum.

It makes a lot of sense the more you think about it.

ADHDers are by and large, especially if not caught early and given adequate support as children, so much more likely to end up with trauma. And, OSDD is one of the most common ways trauma is dealt with by the brain, along with PTSD, BPD and much less commonly, DID.

So if you're reading this and have ADHD and RSD, you might want to consider finding a therapist who specialises in dissociation and trauma; with specific specialisms in OSDD, PTSD and/or DID. It could do you the world of good.

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sem 5 points 3 months ago

What do the acronyms mean? Help fill them out:

  • PTSD: Post Traumatic Stress Disorder
  • OSDD:
  • DID:
  • BPD: Borderline personality disorder
  • RSD:
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