A girlhood denied

5 days ago by NerdyNeko90 to c/mtf

Anyone desperate for more female friends because you feel like you missed out in your life prior to coming out? I find myself being so desperate for new lady friends that it never works out for me. Either they find me annoying or they have ulterior motives like trying to sleep with me.

I’ve been out since I was 29. I’m 36 and I don’t want to miss out on having small group of lady friends. In person, no discord, no Reddit.

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minty 6 points 4 days ago

Yeah for sure. I only have one lady friend and they were my ex, so it makes it a little complex. We make it work however.

I did go to an event with a lot of trans women. It was such a positive vibe. BUT didnt make any friends. I am planning, at some point, going to a dnd thing. Should be a very diverse set of peoole there.

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NerdyNeko90 3 points 4 days ago

My best friend just had a kid with her wife so they’re pretty busy.

I’ve noticed a lot of the trans events run a bit young in my city.

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minty 1 point 4 days ago

Yeaaa :( the one i went to leaned older. A few 50+ Y olds, few 30s.

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NerdyNeko90 2 points 4 days ago

I don’t think I could really connect to anyone under 29 or over 50. But that’s just me.

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