What was the biggest culture shock you ever experienced?

3 years ago by can to c/asklemmy

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dotmatrix 80 points 3 years ago

Little kids taking a shit literally wherever in China. They have special pants (NSFW?) so they can just crouch down and take to take a dump in a shopping mall, the street, the subway ...

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racketlauncher831 34 points 3 years ago

This was more common back in 1980s and before, when it wasn't urbanised enough to have public bathrooms. Nowadays of you do that, passerby will give you white eyes.

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godless 28 points 3 years ago

I live in China. It still happens today and nobody bats an eye. I've seen a kid shit on a hospital floor 2 weeks ago, and some old guy pissing against a wall of a shopping mall just yesterday. And this is in a Tier 1 city.

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StanTheMan 26 points 3 years ago

What the fuck…

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obi_one 5 points 3 years ago

The same thing I thought when I saw it. Not sure yet how things work here, but if there’s a wtf here this should go there.

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fugepe 0 points 3 years ago

You'll literally shit your pants when you learn about the indians, jej

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theUnlikely 18 points 3 years ago

Same for me. It was particularly vexing seeing a child pee into a plant outside an open shopping mall in the center of Shanghai. The restrooms are free, why not just take your kid inside??? The other thing that got me was people refusing to let you off the subway first before they make a mad dash looking for seats. The same happens on the elevators, but there aren't seats so that one is even more confusing.

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vacuumflower 1 point 3 years ago

That's a society which had lots of hierarchy and very little social or even territorial mobility until very recently. And those people's ancestors were likely peasants who'd just live all their lives growing crops in very scary conditions.

I mean, I've heard these things about China and manners.

I've event heard maybe not so scary, but similar things about Russia and manners in the early XX century (since I live in Russia, I do believe they are correct).

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person 11 points 3 years ago

I've got to say it was pretty shocking to be fresh off the boat, walking down the street, and some kid just bolts out of a store, drops her pants and starts pissing next to a tree.

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a1studmuffin 8 points 3 years ago

Between this and gutter oil (Google it, or actually maybe don't), it sure doesn't leave me with a great impression of China and hygiene.

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goat 3 points 3 years ago

you're hella brave saying that on lemmy.ml

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person 0 points 3 years ago

I actually saw them doing that once near where I lived. Thankfully I never ate there.

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goat 3 points 3 years ago

sounds like china

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Silviecat44 -5 points 3 years ago
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