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semperverus 1 point 3 years ago
I am still looking for help. I mostly am looking for light-touch moderation (i.e. Giving people room to express themselves, even if it's not a happy discussion, and stepping in only when absolutely necessary).
As far as the BDSM specific element goes, since you are a bit newer to the kink/interest in general, would you be willing to expand on any of the following safety topics to help give me a better feel with your engagement with it? There are a lot of ways that various things can go wrong with bdsm, and while this will mostly be a porn community, discussion is bound to happen and we may have to step in to give more experienced advice.
What is the primary distinguishing factor between SSC and RACK, and where would each one apply?
What types of physical harm do riggers (shibari) have to avoid, and what tools and techniques would they use to avoid them? (At least one physical tool and one process)
Instead of using a "safe word" like pineapple or eggplant, what is generally considered a better system?
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This is a NSFW community portal about BDSM by and for the FediVerse kink community.
Discussion about BDSM, helpful advice to community members, links to external sites, beautiful images of kinky adults, and pornographic content is very welcome. But do be nice here. Self-Promotion is allowed.
POSTING RULES
FOLLOW ALL SITE RULES! All posts have to follow the rules of lemmynsfw.com, otherwise they get removed.
SELF-PROMOTION IS ALLOWED. You can make posts with links to your monetized content, like OnlyFans, Fansly, etc. Please try to put the link in the posts body, not the title. We might delete a post if the link is sketchy.
ALL FORMS OF SUBMISSIONS ARE ALLOWED. This includes porn, original content, relevant news articles, quality blog posts about kink and text posts. Submissions don't need to be pornographic, but have to relate to BDSM.
RULES FOR NON-ORIGINAL PORN: That means directly uploaded images and gifs, as well as embedded video such as RedGifs. Please try to credit the author in the posts body if able. Otherwise link where you got the post from. Don't spam to much of it please.
RULES FOR ORIGINAL CONTENT: That includes both amateur and monetized content. Please TAG posts as [OC] in the title.
HOOKUPS ARE NOT ALLOWED. If you're looking for a kinky date, please try c/BDSMPersonals. But c/BDSM is not the place. Do not engage other users with proposals and invitations of a sexual nature. This might result in a perma-ban.
COMMUNITY RULES:
FOLLOW ALL SITE RULES!
THIS IS A NSFW 18+ COMMUNITY SPACE! Absolutely no underage submissions or users are allowed here.
NO MISOGENY, RACISM OR BIGOTRY, KINK SHAMING, BODY SHAMING, DEAD NAMING, OR DOXXING OF ANY SORT is allowed here and will be immediately removed by mods with the likely option to perma-ban. This is a LGTBQ+ inclusive community.
DONT JUDGE. Dominant and submissive traits run as a spectrum. Some men are more submissive than others, just as some women more dominant. And the other way around. Let's be respectful of the many ways people exist and love.
NO TROLLING. This is a safe space for kinksters of all kinds. Be respectful of others. Treat people here as you would in real life. Let's encourage community involvement and helpful discourse!
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