Don't forget how lonely people are now. There's an initial 'weird guy' thing one has to get over when talking with someone unexpectedly here in the US.
"Hey, I like the style of that jacket, can I ask where you got it?" People are morose about how alone they feel, but struggle to escape the "rugged individualism" programming of this country, to where they default to feeling safer by shrinking back for a second, before realizing they can, and do, have space to honestly interact with someone else who doesn't actually want something from them. Well, other than pleasant acknowledgement of our short existence at the same place and time.
To bring a slightly different perspective here: we’re not coping.
Our suicide rate has increased 60% since 2011 among youth and young adults. Rates of mental illness have doubled in young people. About 1 in 5 young people in this country will experience depression.
Our rates of overdose deaths have doubled since 2011. Over 100,000 people died from drug use in this country in 2021.
One in five of our kids go hungry. One in five Americans live with mental illness.
When you look at these data they are absolutely alarming and the opposite of most other countries, whose rates are falling. We are not coping, people are just dying these “deaths of despair.”
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