Coworker just went through hell

3 years ago by pixel_witch to c/childfree

My pregnant coworker (whom I don't see very often anyway and was in the process of moving to another city in the next couple months) sort of just disappeared.

Turns out she got a really bad infection and had no amniotic fluid. They ended up having to induce her very early and place the infant in the NICU. She is okay and the baby is okay, but apparently they induced her and then it was too late to get an epidural and she had a retained placenta so they were trying to pull it out. Only after screaming in pain for a bit did they decide to sedate her and address the issue.

I don't know anything about giving birth and even less about dealing with emergency situations, but the whole thing seems off to me. Epidural aside why wait to sedate her if the baby is already been delivered?

My heart goes out to her and her infant but man am I glad to be sterile.

Ambelina 12 points 3 years ago

They waited to sedate her because women's pain and discomfort isn't a priority.

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pixel_witch 7 points 3 years ago

The callus disregard towards her suffering is really frightening

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Thrillhouse 1 point 3 years ago

And despite the fact that women in general have really high tolerance to pain, we’re never taken seriously.

Pregnancy seems like the most dangerous “normalized” thing you can do as a woman.

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BigPapaE 3 points 3 years ago

Sounds terrifying

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MutilationWave 2 points 3 years ago

They'll be paying off that NICU bill until that kid is an adult.

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pixel_witch 3 points 3 years ago

That didn't even occur to me. Jesus her suffering will never end.

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julieulie 1 point 3 years ago

Is she okay?

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pixel_witch 1 point 3 years ago

Yes. Luckily her and the baby are okay. She hasn't opened up to me so I imagine she is feeling a lot of emotions but I can't be sure. Last I heard this week was that they baby had opened her eyes but they seemed a little wonky so they arent sure if she can see well (her eyes werent fully developed when she was born)

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