Maalus 99 points 2 years ago

I lost a partner doing that. Like flipping a switch, any interest in me was gone. Was struggling with depression, we knew eachother for a very long time, even dated in the past. Oh well.

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SparrowHawk 82 points 2 years ago

Patriarchy seeps into women too

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Reddfugee42 41 points 2 years ago

Tons of southern women would literally lose their entire identity if their patriarchy disappeared tomorrow

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SparrowHawk 7 points 2 years ago

Luckily they can build a better one

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Funky_Beak 16 points 2 years ago

Yeah patriarchy is a system and it poisons us all. Never stop being open to being vulnerable. It's just unfortunate that some view it as weakness.

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Maalus -13 points 2 years ago

I wouldn't call it that. In the end, you aren't responsible for what you like or dislike. And once you find someones "ick" that you can't deal with, it's hard to get over it. I have a bunch of those - racism, unwilingness to learn, regular smoking. Theirs was just "man crying". Also, there is crying and then there is holding in emotions and exploding. Sadly, I'm guilty of the latter. I don't really blame them, rather I feel disappointed more than anything.

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SparrowHawk 31 points 2 years ago

Having an ick for a loved one opening up to you is a red line for me. Not really justifiable by personal preferenze, but i understand your reasoning

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