i saw this previously on the lemm.ee community and now i'm curious because i've experienced that before too. i've been fronting and awake but there will be an alter sleeping in front.
what do you do when your alter is asleep and fronting?
a year ago by jay (he/she) to c/Plural
classybattery 2 points a year ago
yeah
oftheair 3 points a year ago
Well, we haven't experienced that (yet). However, we would ask the following questions:
- Are you likely to wake them up unintentionally?
- Is it stopping you from fronting properly?
If no for both then we'd just leave them sleep.
If yes for one or both then maybe try to wake them intentionally and ask them to unfront?
classybattery 2 points a year ago
I can’t move or function sometimes when it happens, but idk if i’m likely to wake them. Usually I don’t wake them though
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Do you mean like co-fronting but one is asleep?
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