Why do men keep on having dates with me and then eventually leave?

a year ago by Katerina to c/askmen

So before anything I'm a trans woman (20), I do not claim to be a real woman or try to put women down or mock them. So please I'd like to ask you to abstein from comments about it because I already know what I am.

I've been trying dating apps because they feel safer than just dating people from your daily life when I was a teen (friends and classmates).

I do have a note on my profile that notifies these men about what I am before they can chat with me, some unmatch, others will say bad stuff before leaving, but another big amount stay. Everything goes fine we chat for a long time, we have a few dates, but in the end they all seem to lose interest at some point.

It just makes me so tired of meeting a lot of different men every month. I don't understand what they want.

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Alcan 25 points a year ago

You are a real woman, at least if you're not an AI. Dating apps are really a battlefield. I remember comparing doing a match to an Isaac run; you start, have some ways, and maybe if all goes well, you win (whatever you find as a win). And in the end you need to do a lot of runs.

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choihanna 4 points a year ago

Hahaha it's funny why do I always get accused of being AI in all my social media? 😭

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surewhynotlem 3 points a year ago

Are you autistic or a grammar nerd? Those groups get flagged as AI more than others.

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Alcan 0 points a year ago

Oh no hahaha, I just wanted to compare it with some unreal thing, and AI is like the trend yk

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