I've looked at Stardew before (my friend plays it) and didn't quite like how crowded the game looked if that makes sense. It seems like there's too many things moving on the screen at every point of the game. Maybe its the design but that's what drew me away from the game. Apart from that, I think I'll try out Starcraft. It's been under my radar for a while now. Thanks for the recs.
It sounds like you need to stay away from 1st person perspective games. Find some "top down" style games: Stardew Valley, Animal Crossing, Starcraft, etc and see how those work for your motion sickness since the camera is much more locked in place.
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