Like if someone asked you to fuck his Stepmom or Wife.
Would you look at him in a patronizing way, would it affect your relationship with him, looking down at him?
Like if someone asked you to fuck his Stepmom or Wife.
Would you look at him in a patronizing way, would it affect your relationship with him, looking down at him?
I try not to look down on them but the whole humiliation aspect is too weird for me. Consensual non-monogamy is great but I just can't get past that part of their fetish. If someone asks me to fuck their wife or to fuck my wife that's fine, but if they want to feel humiliated while I'm fucking their wife or make me feel humiliated while fucking my wife, that is always going to be a hard no from me. It wouldnt really impact my relarionship with them if I knew they were into cuckolding, people are into all kinds of things that I am not into, its not a big deal.
I don't really get the humiliation either, but if I was being offered good sex, I could do the husband a solid and try insulting him. I am not a dirty talker and it would be pushing my limits, but I could give it a try. Maybe I would find it too uncomfortable, or maybe it would be fine.
Yeah, I've slept with someone quite a few times who is married, has kids, and is open about the whole thing. I've met the husband, I have no feelings for him one way or another (he seems like a decent enough guy, but he's not a friend).
But the humiliation I'll pass on, thanks
Can I fuck your wife?
I wouldn't look down on them. I've fucked a cuckold's wife before with him present, degredation was a part of our thing but we all had a drink as equals afterwards, even whilst my cum leaked out of his wife's used pussy
Do that to mine and I'll owe ya a drink
You can serve it to me while I'm still inside her and her pussy is still tensing with the aftershocks of the orgasm she just had on my cock
Humiliation doesn’t have to be part of it at all. The guy can just like the idea and not be into humiliation. I’d let you fuck my wife, clean up your cum and enjoy it for the kink. Or vice versa.
I'm the kind of person that doesn't mind it even if someone wanted to.
It is a consual relationship model, so in general only
look at him in a patronizing way, would it affect your relationship with him, looking down at him
if it is part of the agreed upon dynamic. If there it does not come to an agreement, treat him as before as you are then not part of this dynamic.
I don't think I would look down but I had never encountered it IRL so it'd probably surprise me at first. If asked to participate, I'd politely refuse, and probably point out to them that it's not my thing in many ways. I won't disclose it to third parties, neither I would scout for someone who'd agree.
Honestly, I would reprimand the wife if she starts any kind of humiliation ritual & make the husband terminate the relationship. I am a woman, so I can say this (I am aggresively against the humiliation). As for the men in this chat, I expect you to not shame the guy as well.
This is the hill I choose to perish on
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Without any judgement in my heart I say: I don't think that's what cucking is
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