Lilly unpopular opinion: Turning up. I don’t like flakey friends. We are busy if we make time to stop and celebrate each other turn up. I know you are tired and can’t be bothered me to, but make the effort. Someone drops out or lets others down regular I’m out.
WomensStuff weekend positivity... what trait do you value most in a friend?
19 days ago by LadyButterfly she/her to c/womensstuff
i_dont_want_to 2 points 17 days ago
Yeah, life happens. But even when friends don't have the means, we work something out, like providing them transportation or just hanging out at their place and helping with chores and chatting.
Ashtear 1 point 16 days ago
And ffs, if you're not going to turn up, let me know asap.
A very long-term friend I loved hanging out with finally outright ghosted me after she'd been drifting the past year and while it hurts like hell, as I put more distance between me and her, I realized the anxiety I'd get every time we'd meet up was awful. She had no called no showed enough times that I never really felt sure she'd actually be there.
Repelle 15 points 19 days ago
Patience/understanding
I’m autistic and introverted and often don’t respond to people immediately and drop off the map sometimes. Friends need to understand this and understand that it has no bearing on how I feel about them or our friendship
cannibalkitteh 7 points 19 days ago
Communication. I've seen so many friend groups break down because people are talking around someone rather than to them.
i_dont_want_to 2 points 17 days ago
Celebrating each other's success without tearing the other down. It's ok to be envious! But don't take away from your friend's win because of your feelings.
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Women only trans inclusive This is an inclusive community for all things women. Whether you're here for make up tips, feminism or just friendly chit chat, we've got you covered.
Rules…
- Women only… trans women are women, and transphobic or gender critical talk isn’t allowed. Anyone under the trans umbrella (e.g. non-binary, bigender, agender) is free to decide whether a women's community is a good fit for them.
- Don’t be a dick. No personal attacks, no aggression, play nice.
- Don’t hate on groups, hatefilled talk about groups is not allowed. Ever.
- No governmental politics, so no talk of Trump actions etc. We recommend Feminism@beehaw.org for that, but here is an escape from it.
- New accounts or users with few comments may have their posts removed to prevent spam and bad-faith participation.
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Loyalty, but not of the blind variety. A friend stands alongside me and supports me, even if the support in question is asking "are you sure this is the right thing to do?" or saying "this is wrong".
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