Pre-op questions :3

8 days ago by Squished Fly (she/they) to c/mtf

Finally got my button surge appointment in a few months :3

I got some questions for all of this:

I've been tasked by my surgeon to buy a dialator set, a vaginal douche (I think that's it translated), water based lube and a good donut shaped pillow.

The lube and pillow I can see myself finding locally but where the hell so I get dialators and a douche from... Ideally I would want to avoid amazon. Do you have any EU based recommendations? Do pharmacies maybe even stock them???

Also from what I know, walking will suck. Is there anything to help? Like crutches?

I probably won't respond but still thank you for all the advice you have :3

LadyMeow 2 points 8 days ago

I have some from soul source and some from intimate rose.

I like both of them

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theresa 1 point 3 days ago

The hospital I was at provided Vagiwell dilators. They gave me the set with sizes 1-5 but I only ever used 3-5. I think you can buy them in a pharmacy. And a douche as well, probably. I’d say go ask and even if they don’t have them they can point you in the right direction.

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als 1 point 8 days ago

The dilators my hospital provided me are Soul Source brand but I believe that they're an American county. I imagine pharmacies, at least online ones, may stock vagnial douches as they are sometimes used by cis women too.

Walking will be impossible for a week and difficult for weeks after. You shouldn't need any specialised walking aid once you're discharged, but someone to support you will go a long way.

You will want to spend most of your time horizontal immediately after hospital, so a reclining sofa or entertainment setup in bed could be helpful.

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will_steal_your_username 1 point 8 days ago

I'm having surgery in less than a week! I think I'm being provided dilators but not sure about what else I will receive.

I've done and bought the following in preperation

  • Donut pillow
  • I'm gonna move my bed so it's easy to get in and out without bending
  • non-slip mat and stuff so I can comfortably use my laptop in bed since I'll be stuck there a lot
  • Sandals that I can easily put on without bending over
  • Sanitary pads to soak any blood or liquids
  • Large black underwear (black so any blood or whatever is harder to see, large so it doesn't rub against me and can fit the sanitary pads and whatever else I might be wearing)
  • Mattress protectors
  • High fibre food to combat constipation

Different surgery techniques have different recovery times etc so I dunno how applicable this will all be for you.

I've been using this guide/diary to help me out: https://s3.amazonaws.com/Joped/Suporn2015.pdf

Good luck with the surgery <3

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