Singapore police investigate assault on elderly man who patted girl's head
3 days ago by lechekaflan to c/world
And especially their heads.
Really? You can't think of anywhere else that would be worse?
The head is relatively tame, but the point is that he violated her personal space, her boundaries, without asking. He treated her like an object for his appreciation. Do you think young children should be okay with strange old men touching them? Do you think their parents should be okay with that? I don't. I can't say whether their choice was the best one, but I am absolutely glad they did something about it.
You seem to read a lot of things in my comment that only show your own disturbed mind. There might be reasons for that, but it does not justify your reaction.
Can you explain what you meant by "especially thier heads"? Where is it acceptable for a child to be touched without their consent, according to you?
Where exactly did you read from my comment that I find it acceptable to touch a child (or anyone for that matter) without consent? I don't. I referred to the fact that in certain cultures, a persons head is a seen as especially sacred. In those cultures, touching the head is not "relatively tame". I hope you learned something, but please try to listen to understand, not only to react. Good luck, and all the best.
I referred to the fact that in certain cultures, a persons head is a seen as especially sacred.
Oh? I see; Singapore is such a place. I did not know that.
In those cultures, touching the head is not "relative tame".
I live in the United States. Here, a pat on the head is condescending if unwelcome, but not as creepy as, say, touching a shoulder. Also, Our president is a pedophile. I am wary of anything that could be construed as normalizing the violation of consent and boundaries.
I hope you learned something, but try to listen to understand, not only to react. Good luck, and all the best.
I'm very concerned for victims of abuse. I wish I could help them.
Your comment does make more sense with the cultural context. Thank you for clarifying. I apologize for insinuating that you had any ill intent, I lacked the information to interpret your comment any other way.
No need to apologise, I could imagine from where your reaction might have originated. Thank you, also for helping to not turn Lemmy into Reddit.
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