Codepedency doesn't Rule

4 days ago by SuperNovaStar to c/onehundredninetysix

Almacca 51 points 4 days ago

He's just tired.

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bigmclargehuge 8 points 4 days ago

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Sturgist 6 points 4 days ago

Fuck you....... take my updoot thinggymadoodle

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gegil 14 points 4 days ago

Just because i am incompatible with most people, does not mean that i am a broken person and need fixing :3

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SuperNovaStar 13 points 4 days ago

Have you had someone tell you that you need fixing? If they have, that's awful đŸ«‚

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Natanox 20 points 4 days ago

Isn't it normal to grow up that way, being told you're an unfixable freak of nature that only deserves to die?

No?

Oh


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SuperNovaStar 11 points 4 days ago

Hugs đŸ«‚

And unfortunately it can be pretty normalized đŸ˜„

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gegil 8 points 4 days ago

Yes, they did. But they were all transphobes, so i dont care.

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eestileib 4 points 4 days ago

Ever been queer, disabled, or both?

It's constant. Your right to exist is questioned every day.

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SuperNovaStar 5 points 4 days ago

Yes, but I don't think i've had someone tell me that explicitly to my face. It's more the sort of thing they insinuate.

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SuperNovaStar 12 points 4 days ago

I'm more predisposed to "I can fix her", but I couldn't bring myself to depict any woman as unfixable.

...I think that says a lot about me 😅

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Nikki 11 points 4 days ago

"I can fix her"

i can make her WORSE!!

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SuperNovaStar 4 points 4 days ago

Gotta set realistic goals for yourself 💅

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Tyrq 6 points 4 days ago

Just fill it with cement, what could go wrong

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jumping_redditor 5 points 4 days ago

just put an inner tube in it and don't get stopped by the pigs

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BeMoreCareful 5 points 4 days ago

Nah, that rim is there for a reason, it's fine.

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jdncat 3 points 3 days ago

Someday someone will love the real version of you, flaws at all.

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SuperNovaStar 2 points 3 days ago

Aww, thank you.

It's one thing to know something, another to believe it đŸ˜„

But i'm working on it 😊

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bunkyprewster 3 points 4 days ago

Ooo... Ooo... Fix me, baby

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kestrel7_7 3 points 4 days ago

Tbh back in the day people would totally patch tires like this and keep going for awhile

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Gonzako 2 points 4 days ago

Yep dats me

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Bonje 2 points 3 days ago

Is this an ad? Cause I might have business...

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SuperNovaStar 1 point 3 days ago

No... I don't know how to fix tires đŸ€Ł

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