That post seems to be missing.
Herrmens 38 points 3 years ago

That means that you are probably around 14 years old.

Rule of thumb: don't smack bottoms without consent. Goes either way

path: 0 4166959, hotness: undefined, score: 38, children: 0
matty 6 points 3 years ago

It means she doesn't want it but it is odd she spanked you randomly assuming she didn't even ask if you want it

path: 0 4167086, hotness: undefined, score: 6, children: 5
UnhingedFridge 10 points 3 years ago

"How can she slap?!"

path: 0 4167086 4168905, hotness: undefined, score: 10, children: 0
banana_meccanica -5 points 3 years ago

Then why she spank as first?

path: 0 4167086 4167087, hotness: undefined, score: -5, children: 3
matty 5 points 3 years ago

@banana_meccanica@feddit.it Not sure what answer you expect me to say as I don't know her and just some random stranger on the internet at best

Whatever the reason, it's wasn't alright but that doesn't mean you do it back

path: 0 4167086 4167087 4167327, hotness: undefined, score: 5, children: 2
banana_meccanica -1 points 3 years ago

I ask in a genuine way, what this mean? It's just a bully approce? Do I need to considered myself bullied or it is a sexual thing and she is attracted and want my sexual attention? I don't wanna be bullied as I don't want ignore an interest.

path: 0 4167086 4167087 4167327 4167328, hotness: undefined, score: -1, children: 1
troglodytis 4 points 3 years ago

Humans can do similar actions for dissimilar reasons.

There are a myriad of context clues used in devining others' motivations. I'm sorry to say, here there is not, and is not likely to be, enough information to come to a reasonable conclusion in this instance.

Either motivation you ask about could apply, or none of them.

If you really want to get to the truth, I suggest having an open and frank conversation with the girl. Be willing to listen to what she has to say without contention. Take her words, think on them, and make your own conclusions as to their veracity.

As others have pointed out, consent should precede spanking. Your (re)actions are yours. Look into yourself to figure out why you are willing to act without consent, and if that is something you would like to change about yourself.

path: 0 4167086 4167087 4167327 4167328 4167940, hotness: undefined, score: 4, children: 0
Rachelhazideas 3 points 3 years ago

She sexually assaulted you. Spanking back probably wasn't the right response, but reporting her and calling her out for it would be.

path: 0 4167538, hotness: undefined, score: 3, children: 3
peter -1 points 3 years ago

I think you're assuming a scenario here that is very likely not to be the case

path: 0 4167538 4167947, hotness: undefined, score: -1, children: 2
Rachelhazideas 7 points 3 years ago

He literally said he was spanked on the butt without his consent. No assumptions were made here period.

This is the reason why male sexual assault isn't taken seriously, and why male victims have even less recourse then female victims. Anytime a man is assaulted, it's always brushed off as 'it's not a big deal' or 'it doesn't count cause she's a girl' or 'man up and just take it', often by other men. It's as if consent stops mattering if you have a penis or are male identifying.

Imagine if the genders were reversed and how outraged you would be. As a woman who has had this exact thing done to me before, I know. It's not a matter of how much it hurts to be spanked, it's a matter of losing your agency over your own body and feeling like a piece of meat.

path: 0 4167538 4167947 4169548, hotness: undefined, score: 7, children: 1
xmunk 2 points 3 years ago

Additionally, if it wasn't on his ass it'd still be battery. Sexual assault is pretty clearly defined to include slapping someone's ass and, just generally, don't touch other people.

path: 0 4167538 4167947 4169548 4177165, hotness: undefined, score: 2, children: 0
WeAreAllOne -4 points 3 years ago

She likes you.

path: 0 4167265, hotness: undefined, score: -4, children: 1
banana_meccanica -2 points 3 years ago

How much are you sure about it? Because I don't really feeling

path: 0 4167265 4167379, hotness: undefined, score: -2, children: 0

thanks for using Leebra!

go to feed...