a serious rule issue

3 years ago by sunnie to c/196

PotatoesFall 132 points 3 years ago

I thought it was gonna be 3-4 times a day, but in a week? Those are rookie numbers

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Swedneck 17 points 3 years ago

their problem is that they're a god damn prude, only 4 times per week? call the pope we have a new patron saint

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Neato 98 points 3 years ago

Well, femboys are men who dress feminine. Does that mean you're attracted to them being feminine? Or are you attracted because they're men? Because you can certainly be attracted to women with penises (trans women) and be straight and be attracted to feminine-presenting men and be gay.

Personally I think you should just embrace whatever you find attractive and not worry about the sexuality labels. But I know not every society allows just permissive views.

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azertyfun 14 points 3 years ago

Does that mean you're attracted to them being feminine? Or are you attracted because they're men?

yes

More seriously, in my experience androgynous/GNC features are widely considered attractive in bisexual circles because they combine attractive features of multiple genders, which is at least twice as many attractive things.

However someone discovering themselves as "not straight" might not have enough understanding of the relationship between gender and attraction to answer your question.
In my case as I hit puberty I realized I was attracted to girls, so I thought "ok I'm straight". Years and many ignored signs later I realized I found feminine men hot, so I thought "I'm straight so it's because they're feminine". Then like a year or two later I caught myself thinking a definitely-not-effeminate actor was hot (not for the first time) and the other shoe dropped. Yeah, I'm a dumbass, but point is that it's much easier to put a label on oneself and go from there, than to deconstruct something as complex as gender and attraction.

Thank you for coming to my ted talk.

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Daft_ish 8 points 3 years ago

This has been the most informative ted talk I've seen in years.

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Colour_me_triggered 6 points 3 years ago

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LuckingFurker 67 points 3 years ago

Can't blame them though, femboys are hot

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Coasting0942 71 points 3 years ago

OP is straight.

Femboys make him hard.

Ergo, femboys are women.

Source: Johnny Bravo

Edit: So begins OPs first step into internet research to disprove me….

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the_post_of_tom_joad 30 points 3 years ago

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LuckingFurker 18 points 3 years ago

True and real

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CyanFen 60 points 3 years ago

Am I the only one who feels like exclusively jerking to their SO is weird as fuck?

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riodoro1 17 points 3 years ago

It sounds like a thing they teach you at sunday school

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Pregnenolone 6 points 3 years ago

It’s insane and disappointing how many people think like that today. People who can’t seperate fantasy and reality and are so insecure about other people’s thought that they want to dictate them.

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riodoro1 47 points 3 years ago

3-4 times this week

Pffffft

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So_zetta_slowpoke 6 points 3 years ago

Those are rookie numbers.

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Toneswirly 42 points 3 years ago

Geez, it's almost like rigid guidelines on sexuality are a farse.

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ichmagrum 6 points 3 years ago

farce arse

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Pregnenolone 42 points 3 years ago

Maybe not as straight as he wants to think he is

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euphoric_cat 42 points 3 years ago

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sunnie 41 points 3 years ago

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euphoric_cat 10 points 3 years ago

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Rozauhtuno 39 points 3 years ago

ONLY 4 times a week?

Those are rookie numbers, git gud noob.

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Mandarbmax 14 points 3 years ago

4 times a week while in a serious relationship though is a lot more than 4 times a week while single.

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Rozauhtuno 12 points 3 years ago

skill issue

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DragonTypeWyvern 7 points 3 years ago

Anyone who doesn't nut once a day counts as asexual imo

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qyron 3 points 3 years ago

Why?

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DragonTypeWyvern 4 points 3 years ago

Their clear lack of sexual verve.

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Pregnenolone 1 point 3 years ago

I mean, it all depends on the couple and the individuals in it. Some people just have a much higher libido but can still maintain a plenty healthy sex life including masturbating

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Colour_me_triggered 38 points 3 years ago

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sharkfucker420 25 points 3 years ago

You didn't have to type that out

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Jimmyeatsausage 22 points 3 years ago

ಠ_ಠ

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Krauerking 6 points 3 years ago

ಠ⁠︵⁠ಠ

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Getallen 11 points 3 years ago

You were browsing e621 with the blacklist disabled didnt you?

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qyron 9 points 3 years ago

What?!

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Colour_me_triggered 14 points 3 years ago

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qyron 6 points 3 years ago

All the imagined horrors of fiction cannot compare to the darkness that dwells within the hearts of men.

You had me with this part.

Go take a look at motherless dot com if you don't believe me (I'm not linking that shit here you'll have to do some typing).

How low does that score in the internet?

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Colour_me_triggered 2 points 3 years ago

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Mrderisant 4 points 3 years ago

I'm really scared of that. Can I get a sentence of clarity on it?

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Krauerking 4 points 3 years ago

Oh... Motherless... Yeah I went to that site as a kid....

Don't. Just don't think about it ever again. Like trust me. Don't.

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Colour_me_triggered 1 point 3 years ago

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Pregnenolone 8 points 3 years ago

Bro please don’t ever cause me to associate femboys and maggots please

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LunarVoyager 4 points 3 years ago

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FQQD 32 points 3 years ago

I mean, who doesn't

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SternburgExport 31 points 3 years ago

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kingcarlosxiii 30 points 3 years ago

Wait…ya’ll thinking of your Spouses/Significant Others? Honest question. The only time I ever thought about my spouse while masturbating was before they were my spouse.

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Daft_ish 2 points 3 years ago

Jesus gives you a pass if it's your property.

Edit: OH now the Christians are mad for suggesting woman are less than human?!

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programmer_belch 27 points 3 years ago

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Franzia 26 points 3 years ago

Damn. Outrageous! What is society doing to our men? Making them horny over feminine looking men? 🤔 what will the l2sgbtqia do to us next? Make me feminine?/ 🥺 please

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ConstantPain 17 points 3 years ago

I have masturbated to worse things...

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sunnie 11 points 3 years ago

username checks out

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ConstantPain 3 points 3 years ago

Oh, my sweet sunnie child...

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ichmagrum 6 points 3 years ago

That's a damn weird concept of relationship loyalty.

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cuchilloc 2 points 3 years ago

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lingh0e 1 point 3 years ago

They're just confusing

Oh, ladyboys...

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