I want to selfhost a messaging service for my family. It should be secure and have voice calling option, ideally. Thank you.
What is the best selfhostable messaging service for family?
3 years ago by greensky to c/selfhosted
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ptman 6 points 3 years ago
This is outdated info. Matrix doesn't need lots of resources these days. "for instance Synapse uses 5-10x less RAM than it used to (my personal federated server is only using 145MB of RAM atm!" - https://matrix.org/...
Host it for free https://paul.totterman.name/posts/free-clouds/ & https://paul.totterman.name/...
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Just for a family and friends I'd go for xmpp. Matrix is still an enormous greavy piece of software, hard to self host if you don't want to pay for a gigantic server just for it. Also the UI is more like gamer/company chat (discord, slack...), what may not be what your family expect, coming from whatsapp, telegram, or plain sms. In the contrary xmpp is very light and nowadays a lot of tutorial exists on how to configure it, even with voice/video. Plus mobile apps like conversation match the habbits of other messengers.
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