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ArrrborDAY 78 points a year ago

What you're describing is a transition failure, and it's one of the most underappreciated executive function challenges. When you were about to sweep, your brain had already built up complete mental and physical momentum for that specific task sequence. The moment you realized you needed the Swiffer upstairs, everything changed. You had to stop the current task flow, navigate to a different location, retrieve an object, and then return and re-initiate the original task. That's four separate executive function transitions, and each one is a potential derailment point. What looked like "sweep floor" suddenly became "manage a complex multi-step retrieval mission," and your brain's motivation system responded accordingly.

For future situations like this, one approach that can help is staging the task equipment, for instance keeping the tools you need in the spaces where you'll actually use them, even if that means keeping duplicates. It's all about reducing the number of transitions your brain has to manage. Another strategy is to try to catch yourself in that moment when you realize something is missing and make a conscious choice: either commit to the full retrieval mission as its own separate task, or give yourself permission to pivot to something else entirely without the guilt. Sometimes the kindest thing you can do is acknowledge that the activation energy needed to follow through just got too high and let yourself off the hook so you dont feel so guilty.

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ArrrborDAY 34 points a year ago

Gay men who desired to pass as straight would marry a woman and such women were known as beards. Vance is married to an Indian woman but the rumor is he would like to divorce his wife and marry Erica Kirk. So its a double entendre: Vance is a gay man and he will divorce his 'brown' beard and marry one who is white.

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ArrrborDAY 20 points a year ago

startup culture and tech founders

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ArrrborDAY 16 points a year ago

Brutal!

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ArrrborDAY 12 points 3 years ago

The enemy is simultaneously super weak and super strong blah blah blah

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ArrrborDAY 11 points a year ago

Delusional conditions aren't new. Just how they are facilitated changes.

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ArrrborDAY 11 points a year ago

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ArrrborDAY 10 points a year ago

You might have CPTSD in addition to ADHD

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ArrrborDAY 10 points 9 months ago

Robert Moses

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ArrrborDAY 9 points a year ago

This is the scene where Legolas declares, "They're taking the Hobbits to Isengard!". Read the poem and then concatenate that phrase.

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ArrrborDAY 9 points a year ago

¯_(ツ)_/¯ You don't have to sell yourself for money, you dont care if its wrong or if is its right

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ArrrborDAY 9 points a year ago

Let us not forget the I can't poop for three days guy. That was just after the reddit api fiasco and helped cement Lemmy's capacity for collective comedy.

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ArrrborDAY 8 points a year ago

And indoor plumbing!

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ArrrborDAY 7 points a year ago

"To boldly grow ..."

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ArrrborDAY 7 points a year ago

But they do have good chocolate though.

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ArrrborDAY 6 points a year ago

Voyager here

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ArrrborDAY 6 points 3 years ago

Likely so, though scraping will still yield the data. Maybe they will make scraping harder too.

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ArrrborDAY 5 points a year ago

Whatever

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ArrrborDAY 5 points 3 years ago

Thank you for trying to protect the lemmy/kbin and fediverse communities. It will take lots of effort like this to keep it unshitified.

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thanks for using Leebra!

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