Yeah the problem is not the browser, it's that websites are so big. Firefox works perfectly fine on low bandwidth if you use ublock origin and block media and script loading.

I use this often for the same reason, many websites don't display properly or at all anymore but at least it's more usable.

That's what you think, but as soon as I leave this comment thread and become unaware of it, I'm sorry to say, but you will stop existing. Tough luck.

Thanks, I'm trying :)

I just don't know how to find that right group. I've been going out for so many years, trying again and again and never managed to. There's always like 1 (or whatever small fraction) person out of the whole group I get along with and the rest are varying amounts of shitty.

But thank you for your words and trying :)

I tried doing that. The problem was that being in contact with these groups or people massively increased the amount of bad news I came into contact with. I really tried, but I just couldn't handle it and had to retreat again.

I seriously don't know how I can help consistently without breaking down. I'm trying sometime but then I just have to shut down again because I feel so utterly terrible.

I've driven my car until it shows 1km and then 0km expected distance, and then a few kilometers more.

Unless you have to get someone up the stairs or over some rubble, isn't grabbing their arms and dragging them the best way to do this?

Dude, it's ok to be wrong sometimes, no one would judge you :) In fact, it's a sign of strength to be able to admit you're wrong, and people will like you more for it. It'll also be good for you personally as you will be more effective in more things :)

Yes but that is also a rationalization after the fact. First, it was ew, then we figured out that there were also rational reasons against it.

Nice, now even if I become disabled I still won't be free of a job!

(I recognize that this may be an incredible achievement and quality of life improvement, but the way this news is phrased is absolutely ridiculous)

Kein scheiß, in dem Fall sollte genau das passieren. Es gibt so ein paar Sachen, wo die, die darüber entscheiden, die Effekte der Entscheidung spüren müssen, und das wäre so eins wo das der Fall ist.

So you're saying bloated fruit cans are the ones to look for? Got it, thanks!

Very good, I think I'm probably one of the best humans on Earth, yet I still am far from perfect and have so many places where I can do better.

my default mode of thinking assumes that I am the best at everything

Well then you are not quite with me though, I'm not even remotely the best at most things, and I know that. Everyone is pretty terrible at the things they haven't practiced, and I haven't spent a significant amount of practice with most things.

But to me, it is not important in the evaluation of how good I am in total that I'm good at many things. Everyone has different things that they are good at. Rather, for example, my ability to accurately assess my skills in different areas is one of the things what makes me actually good, i.e. not overestimating myself in things I'm terrible at, and not underestimating myself in things I'm actually good at. I think that is a skill everyone should be good at.

Obviously, this whole evaluation includes a plethora of factors, and this is just one of them. Truly getting into why I think I'm probably one of the best humans around would take too long for such a casual thread, and is likely not even close to being desired information for anyone.

And it's not even guaranteed that my evaluation is any good, and anyway, everybody's evaluation is different. I do not actually know if the criteria by which I judge myself and others are good right now, it's very possible they change in the future once I know more. Other people's set of criteria might be better than mine. As such, I don't actually presume to tell anyone what I think of them unless they specifically want to know.

I'm not at any specific "mode" and I do think my way of thinking about myself is very healthy.

The problem here is that he obviously didn't get her new Tupperware after.

That's exactly why you should not blindly follow things though. There is literally no advantage to a nicely made bed except that it looks nice. If that is not worth the effort of making the bed, then why would you do it?

Having to make my bed has a negative effect on my mental health. But yes, that's why I said to evaluate it individually.

I mean I assume you don't have much sex or a girlfriend or anything.

In that case, at least from what I know from myself or my friends, this desire to look is completely normal. I think you might follow that desire a little bit too much (as it is something you can control), but the base feeling you have is something most men experience.

Your nature is telling you to approach women and have sex with them. For some reason, you don't, maybe because you're scared, socially anxious, people have told you being sexual is terrible, whatever. This part of your nature is very strong, and as it seems the only thing left for you is looking, of course you're going to want to do it.

If you actually approach women and have a healthy sex life, that desire probably goes down, but of course now you've also made it a kind of compulsive habit, so it might be hard to break.

It's honestly quite ridiculous to me that you're ashamed of looking at sexually attractive people. Despite what some radical feminists or whoever will tell you, just looking and being sexually attracted is nothing shameful. It's more likely that this shame itself is causing the issue, since you're sexual, yet that is for some reason shameful so you can't satisfy it, causing you to have more of a sexual desire since you have so little of actual action.

Sexuality is our main drive, it is constant, and there's nothing wrong with it as long as you inquire about people's boundaries and respect them.

Of course coffee counts. It's still water and has no salt. It will not be close to enough, but still.