I can't stand porn sounds half the time. Too much "Ooooo!" and "Oh Baby" and sucking in the breath. Give me a good hard porn that has natural sounds. I don't need the over-agressive talking.

It's nice to see the porn, but maybe discussion communities. BDSM advice, poly communities, stuff like that.

For me, large breasts are fine. It's when you can tell they are bolted on I'm just not interested.

My wife and I are overweight folks. I have quite the gut, and she has a rather large booty. My gut on her trunk prevents any doggy style action. And it gets worse when she wants to be on top, my claustrophobia kicks in and I panic so bad I lose the erection.

I wouldn't mind more discussion based communities. Somewhere people can find others who live specific lifestyles, or need advice in something. And maybe more communities devoted to meeting people.

I just started /c/personals on this instance.

I've never had a spitter, but then I haven't had many lovers who would finish me to completion, and they were swallowers. The rest would suck me for a few minutes and that was it. The first time I came in a mouth, my world changed.

I could have worded things better.

What is the craziest thing sexually you have done with a partner?

Sucking dick.

I was in my parents attic with a job waiting to save enough for a house. I just asked a girl out on a date. I stopped worrying about being at home as I had a valid reason to be there. I moved back in from out of state and didn't have much saved up. But I just talked with the girl. My point being you are more worried about your status than she will be, and you are trying to force being charming. The only thing you need to force is keeping yourself from saying something that Louis CK would. Just chat. And be honest.

Is there anything anybody could help out with?

I don't know how to spell, or use the correct words.

I get strangely turned on if I play games similar to The Sims.

Something for the community, maybe a title tag system, like for posts for advice, the title starts with [Advice], may an Ask me Anything should have [AMA], and general conversation be, well, something. Just a way we can sort and filter if necessary.

My thoughts on this: I figure that since culture and society expect men to be a dominating and strong aspect of a relationship, so for some men it might be tiring to hold that and take a break in being a soft submissive.

Why not both?

I used to sleep naked, but now I just sleep in my boxers. My wife and I used to stay at a friends house after we would perform a late-night stage show (RHPS), and the friends kid was usually supposed to be at his grandmother's place on those nights. One night, I kicked my blanket off in the night and the kid came home early. My wife noticed I was flopped out of my boxers before I woke up and heard the kid running towards the guest room. She acted quick, and I have to bring my sweatpants to overnights.

Hey pretty lady, what do you use those lips for? 😎

Personally, I want to meet others who live a freeuse lifestyle. Hear about how different people do it in their own homes. But generally, maybe more like that for other kinks and lifestyles. Make the instance more friendly towards discussion communities.