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@lemmy.world

Dadbod89 66 points 3 years ago

It starts off with small, benign things that are too small to make a big deal out of. Maybe I am an idiot for forgetting to do the dishes? Then they don't like your friends, your family is too judgemental and you need to respect whatever they say because your partner takes priority, how dare you not be completely committed to your partner?

I didn't really know what gaslighting truly was until I was already in too deep, but it involves eroding a person's self esteem, debasing their values and constantly putting someone down so they're constantly trying to think of anything they can do to keep their partner happy because that's what a good partner does. I think the tipping point when I started to question my relationship was when she punched me in my face on my birthday, kicked me out of the car and had to walk home 2 miles at 1am; I think I stayed in the relationship probably another 1-2 years after that because that's how effective it can be.

Oh and FYI they'll never actually take their mask off. Once I finally caught them red handed cheating on me, her mask "slipped" and she smiled for just a quick second. Then she doubled down and tried to say she can't live without me, its not what it looks like, and trying to seduce me, anything to sell the lie and never ever admitted the truth.

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Dadbod89 42 points 3 years ago

Lie down on your side with the clogged nostril higher than your clear nostril. Breathe normally and you'll notice your nostril will unclog after a few minutes, works 90% of the time.

Think of the clog as a mass behind your nose and gravity is shifting it to the middle. FYI it might switch to the other nostril, so it might take a few attempts before you clear both and at the very least you get a bit of easy relief without meds or more aggressive methods.

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Dadbod89 21 points 3 years ago

How often do you see shit that you really didn't want to see and do you end up getting desensitized to the content?

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Dadbod89 20 points 5 months ago

YTA, dude everything you mentioned was only for you to get your way and nothing you said took into consideration what she wanted. Sure she doesn't pay rent, but it was only so she wouldn't move in with someone else. You're talking like she's broken, please leave her so you don't waste any more of her time.

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Dadbod89 15 points 3 years ago

Weird, the title has a bunch of weird characters going vertically and cutting into other post titles...

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Dadbod89 13 points 3 years ago

There's type 1 and 2 diabetes. I believe type 2 requires you to regularly prick your fingers to test your blood sugar levels several times a day while type 1 requires mandatory insulin shots into your stomach a few times a day. Basically a diabetic fuckin hates needles for good reason and to be able to do that with ultrasound would be rad.

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Dadbod89 10 points 3 years ago

I mean Chicago is pretty darn gay and loud about it if you ask me. Hell there's at least 3 predominantly lgbt neighborhoods and Chicagoans aren't afraid to speak up either, so I'd say it's feasible this could have happened.

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Dadbod89 10 points 3 years ago

I still do this in the most gender neutral way possible, is this no longer kosher?

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Dadbod89 8 points 3 years ago

Well said bruh, surprise boobs are nice to have back again. Definitely a lot of hentai and furries, but it's a mild annoyance. Not seeing so much commey or right wing stuff though, so I think that's people trying to shit talk Lemmy

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Dadbod89 8 points 3 years ago

It's mostly on the instance lemmynsfw.com, but you should be able to see it when looking at All. Maybe the app you're using has NSFW content blocked by default? Yeah there's a ton of porn, but mostly just images or links to red gif

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Dadbod89 7 points 5 months ago

As many of these moments as I've had, I can't remember a single one, but I can tell you that they keep me up for multiple nights until I can repress the memory and wipe it from my repository, otherwise I'd never make it in this world.

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Dadbod89 7 points 3 years ago

Well yeah, being abused sucks lol. Doesn't mean all relationships are bad. I'm married now to my best friend and I'm happier than I ever was when I was single. Best I can say is to always stay true to yourself; learn to be happy by yourself first, then find someone to compliment your happiness. Also, COMMUNICATION IS KEY

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Dadbod89 7 points 3 months ago

Dude at least they attempted to scoop it out. My better half cuts it in half and SQUEEZES it out because she's decided it's better/easier than cutting it out properly. Now I walk into the kitchen and find the mutilated remains of our avocados.

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Dadbod89 6 points 3 years ago

Where you at, I'm hungry

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Dadbod89 5 points 10 months ago

I have several, depends on the crowd.

Careless Whisper -George Michael, This Love -Maroon 5, Drops of Jupiter - Train, Someone Like You -Adele

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Dadbod89 4 points 3 years ago path: 0 828218 828268, hotness: undefined, score: 4, children: 6
Dadbod89 3 points 3 years ago

Yeah, was easier than editing lol

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Dadbod89 3 points 3 years ago

I've been testing Connect against Jerboa and Liftoff, Connect still takes it! I wish the thumbnails performed better though, I'm seeing less previews/thumbnails on Connect vs the other apps. If that could be addressed, I'll go right ahead and delete the others.

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Dadbod89 3 points 3 years ago
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Dadbod89 3 points 3 years ago

I haven't found a history of upvotes and I think it's a great feature to add. Yes you can save posts, but I like to bookmark specific posts to share with my partner while still being able to upvote what I like+revisit them later.

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thanks for using Leebra!

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