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EsmereldaFritzmonster

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EsmereldaFritzmonster 32 points a year ago

I honestly feel so much shame about not getting married bc I would lose my gov benefits. I've never thought about it like this and it makes me feel less ashamed.

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EsmereldaFritzmonster 24 points 2 years ago

Stop out-woking one another, it's okay to be right silently in order to bring in fence sitters.

If someone says, "my spirit animal told me late-stage capitalism is evil" welcome them to the club with open arms, focus on how you're alike and trust them to work out their faux pas over time spent among like-minded peers.

Also cultural appropriation ≠ exploitation, we can stop clutching our collective pearls over these faux pas.

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EsmereldaFritzmonster 23 points 10 months ago

It's been this way for a long time. 20 years ago I was told I came off as angry in my texts. It took me a sec, but I figured out it's bc i put periods at the end of the last sentence.

That sounds like a good plan. See you there

-vs-

That sounds like a good plan. See you there.

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EsmereldaFritzmonster 22 points 9 months ago

There are SEEMINGLY UNLIMITED reasons to discredit this person and one of them is not 'addict in recovery'.

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EsmereldaFritzmonster 22 points a year ago

I think this is buy design. Capitalism zaps your energy by forcing you to pay the bills and leaves no energy for fun. Lazy fun means consuming. Food, drugs, tech, media, etc.

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EsmereldaFritzmonster 18 points 2 years ago

I have a family member that works as an engineer building parts for various spacecraft. They get excited about the possibility of finding a renewable energy source and just in general what science can gain and learn from space that will make life better on earth.

Do with that what you will, I'm neutral, I'm just providing a different perspective that I think is relevant.

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EsmereldaFritzmonster 17 points a year ago

Every time I start to feel bad for these men, I remember every time I was either victimized or made to feel uncomfortable on purpose and I no longer feel bad about it. I think there is an aspect of me that is able to sympathize, but a bigger part is fucking bitter and wants to see them get a taste of their own medicine.

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EsmereldaFritzmonster 16 points 2 years ago

I think this perspective (that teens have nothing else in their lives other than social media) is harmful. I don't understand why they're not able to do the same things teens did before social media......

Police being called on harmless teenagers by the same busybodies over and over again kind of sorts itself out after awhile.

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EsmereldaFritzmonster 13 points 2 years ago

In eighth grade, part of being in student council was helping an assigned teacher with various tasks during study hall. Well, when that teacher didn't have anything for us, my friend and I would go help the librarian with various tasks instead. We were "caught" and given detention (my first and only). So dumb.

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EsmereldaFritzmonster 11 points a year ago

Bad faith argument. Equating two people that spend their lives together to an exclusively sexual kink is bunk. Grow up.

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EsmereldaFritzmonster 11 points 2 years ago

Fish gotta swim, birds gotta eat

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EsmereldaFritzmonster 9 points 2 years ago

Tip on how to internalize material: when studying, every so often, either pretend out loud or find a human person to teach/explain in detail what you just learned. If you're a visual person, use a white board, if you're a movement person, stand up and be expressive.

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EsmereldaFritzmonster 8 points 2 years ago

In the spirit of my post, I'm glad you see a disparity in the term cultural appropriation like I do.

In the spirit of clarifying what I mean, cultural appropriation is using elements of another culture. What you described is exploitative, is very serious, and not what I'm referring to.

But I appreciate your input all the same.

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EsmereldaFritzmonster 8 points 2 years ago

In addition to location, the data collected moreso resemble demographics than specifics. And on some of the most mundane shit at first glance, but actually gives a very clear picture of the consumer. Things like 1. OS installed 2. version of OS installed 3. Battery percentage 4. Total device memory 5. Remaining total memory and more things like that.

I liken it to how a psychic fools people into thinking they are magical when really they are incredibly perceptive and experienced in making judgements based on client's clothes, appearance, demeanor, etc before they even open their mouths.

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EsmereldaFritzmonster 8 points 2 years ago

This is an oversimplification. I have met plenty of people who are progressive or Democrat that believe some pretty wild things about vaccines and western medicine in general. Don't underestimate hippies.

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EsmereldaFritzmonster 7 points a year ago

Dopamine just flooded my brain

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EsmereldaFritzmonster 7 points a year ago

Suffer how? Suffer from the consequences of your own actions? Fine! Let every person on earth answer for their crimes against others.

Women have been walking on eggshells among other horrors for 99.9% of recorded history for no reason, but we haven't had the privilege until very recently to call it out. Men have to suffer consequences by witnessing the harm of their own actions for .00000001% of history and expect everyone else to weep for them. Either take some responsibility or shut the fuck up and let us have our fucking MOMENT of justice.

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EsmereldaFritzmonster 7 points a year ago

Does anyone feel like using "bros" is divisive? Maybe I'm old but "bros" makes me think of frat boys, not a great association. Seems like sabotage.

I love Bernie, but he needs to endorse more people for the next generation. He's not getting younger!

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EsmereldaFritzmonster 7 points 2 years ago

Look, I don't live in Australia, but the way you describe it makes it sound like every single person is a cunt and every place is exactly the same, urban or rural.

Tell me the places with these mosquito sounds.

Can they take public transport or their bikes? A group have their parent or other family provide rides?

Parents aren't helicoptery enough of this is the kind of shit teens are up against day in and day out.

Here's what happens when the cops show up to a busy body call. The cops show up, they ask what's going on, they see nothing illegal is happening and leave. Kids continue living their lives. Can't loiter at the park. Don't trespass or loiter in a parking lot or other private property. If they keep calling, the cops start recognizing whose calling and stop questioning the same kids over and over. Cops always give warnings about loitering. If your police are arresting minors for loitering, you got bigger problems. Honestly, isn't it just a ticket?

Whether or not cops are safe depends on many factors, but having the cops know where you're kids are isn't a terrible thing.

cops love to frame innocent people

Get off the internet and crime shows

How dangerous are the police in Australia? How many fatalities? How often?

Edit: advocating for after school programs / funding would be worthwhile. I think your perspective is exaggerated and dismissive, but we could potentially agree on this much.

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EsmereldaFritzmonster 7 points a year ago

Lemmy is like an unintuitive, user-unfriendly reddit. And everyone likes it that way. I'm not leaving bc i want to support open-source shit, but I'm hoping it gets more user friendly someday.

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