Honestly, libraries can be. Big, you can visit whenever, they have weekly events and a community that you can get to know.

EDIT: But that's probably a profoundly obvious answer, sorry haha.

nope, businesses still have them on a local scale. We get them at careers fairs too.

Great in-depth answer

Nudist beach or naked days at home together. Understand this isn't sexual, but about intimacy nonetheless.

even if it’s quite small by cis guy standards.

What makes you say that? Our dicks come in all shapes and sizes.

You can refer to "unravelling size" or CalcSD to get a better understanding of member proportions if you haven't already seen those sites

Dick size isn't really as big an issue as people make it out to be - it's genuinely how you use it.

How I would bescribe myself: "behold! I will now write my name on my arm."

How I woukd describe myself:"The Disillusioned-with-reality guy."

Yeah. Although, every baby boomer who's talked to me about catholic school seems really traumatised by it

Thank you for your thoughtful comment!

I walked in on my uncle watching porn once when I was 5 or 6, and it wasn’t a traumatic experience. I only remember it because of how the adults around me reacted when I said something.

This reminded of the parenting advice that when children hurt themselves (e.g trip over) freaking out about it is training them to freak out at the pain more - the calmer you are about it, the less tears are shed.

Basically this is the same way I feel about nudity - you don't freak out and yell at your kid for accidentally seeing you naked, you instead explain that people appreciate privacy regarding their body, so one should look away when someone is undressed. I presume this is what you mean by 'the way we treat nudity and sex isn't great.'

Ethics aside, there could be legal ramifications

Yes, I actually found out recently that there's a crime called corrupting a minor, which usually means showing them porn or sex acts. I think it would only apply to overheard-sex if the child made the parents aware, asked them to avoid the activity, and yet it continued. I, not being bothered by it, simply never bought it up (pretty sure I was a teenager when i first overheard.)

I’ve taught him about “low quality” content and we’ve watched a couple so he could understand what I meant. Now, when he wants to watch something like that, I say “no, that’s going to be low quality,” he seems to understand and we move on to find something else.

Honestly never thought about how I would teach my (hypothetical, future) kid this stuff. I have the benefit of a decade of experience learning how youtube works and living through the clickbait endemic.
I guess that's why it's so important for parents to navigate YouTube together with them. My first experience of YT was also watching cool stuff like VSauce and Lego animations with my family.

That said, we were at a restaurant the other day and a woman was there with her baby and a friend. She set that infant in a high chair with AI slop on her phone right in its face. The kid definitely didn’t disturb her conversation, because it looked like a zombie. Godspeed, child

Sometimes you see toddlers who are just playing blaring loud noises from tablets at restaurants. You also see adults&teenagers doing that on trains... I guess I would point them out to my kid afterwards and say "that's what happens when you watch too mcuh brainrot!"

Totally. If they've already seen it all, i say fuck it.

I'm not a nudist but I'm fine being naked around immediate family, and cousins when going swimming. A lot of people seem surprised by this if it comes up in conversation. The bottom line is that nudity doesn't have to be a sexual thing, and with family it never is.

Ear scratches.

And what lath said.

I think simple things like this add to the longevity of a couples' sex life.

The people who get bored of sex are the ones who try for pornstar sex every time, in my opinion.

They need to have an appreciation of sex for all the different things it can be and all the ways they can have it.

Cigarettes - I'd probably go with cigars now, anyway. I'm evolving!

Also, industrial sabotage on behalf of an environmental cause. Okay that's not because i'm scared i guess i've just been too lazy. Also no point making other workers' lives harder, most of the time. Point me in the direction of a truly worthy cause and I'll bring a sledgehammer

"Incest: it's hot as long as it's someone else's family doing it"

It is bizarre how prevalent the tangentially incestuous stuff is ('mommy' and 'daddy'), and also how much people joke about it. I guess humans can follow herd behaviour even when it comes to sex

i presume he's picking on you because you're a young woman and he sees them as "easy targets" to release anger upon. Honestly happens to me a bit too, some people get annoyed or jealous when they see younger people.

That's cute! And very restrained on the smuttiness, SmuttyLad

since it's dakota johnson on the right, i'm tempted to say fifty shades of grey, and since it's not the usual love interest (mr gray), i'm guessing she has a boy toy in the...4th? 3rd? movie or something. I haven't watched any of the 50 shades of grey movies. The outfits do match though.

The fact they don’t see anything wrong with this is somewhat disturbing. (...) you’d think they would make a minimum effort to mask it from their children.

They would do it at night, I'm guessing they had no idea how audible it was on the various audible occasions. So I'd say they made effort to mask it - they're certainly not exhbitionists. Other instances I've read about seem far worse.

It can be handled by both but you need to bear in mind that most barbers are uhhh they just don't understand long hair. Ask them to keep it a medium length they're gonna give you something short. Its' really a question of what risk you're willing to handle.