@ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone Like what they said. I did make this to hear opinions but was also hoping it would draw some out of hiding who hadn't been banned yet. I was reading threads on Reddit before posting this and was unsettled by how many transmeds there are on that platform and was concerned about how many might be on Lemmy.

That seems wild that people would accuse you of being a transmed for having a looser definition of dysphoria. Usually transmeds have tighter definitions to exclude others.

Fair enough I wasn't thinking about people who have an open mind or are willing to change. More thinking of the kind of person who says I'm hurting trans people because I like and keep my natal genitals, or because I use xenogender lables (demongender by the way). I guess when they keep their mouths shut they aren't much of a problem and maybe more people are willing to change than I've previously thought.