This might be a stupid question but like ... I'm looking for women and I'm not going to find them on Grindr right?

I feel like I don't really have any right now (hence slut phase) but my problem is more that I don't know how to meet anyone I guess.

I've been using it for the past week and it has helped, but only a little. Freaking expensive too.

That really makes no sense. If you're a 5 there are statistically way more people "in your league" than if you're a 10.

It is just really not the case that only the most attractive people have sex. The majority of sex - casual and otherwise - is had between people who are average looking.

Few things.

• I kind of think I qualify on all three, certainly the last two
• even if you do though, presumably you still have to do something
• last, there are more people who are not 8-10s than there are who are. Presumably they flirt, date, and have sex too right? At some level shouldn't this just mean there are more people "in your league"?

Half of all people are above average. I just don't think this is the death sentence people on the Internet say it is.

I could be wrong but I have a feeling if I was going for dudes I'd be doing just fine haha.

Realistically, aren't most people not 8+/10s by definition? Don't they flirt, date, and hookup too?