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@lemmy.world

Kainsley 38 points 3 years ago

Probably shot by another mass shooter /s

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Kainsley 24 points 3 years ago

Thats my worst nightmare! Their toilet is just a tiny bottle so they're all gonna be pissing, shitting and puking on each other for days, arguing everytime someone starts hyperventilating. fuck that.

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Kainsley 23 points 3 years ago

Pretty sure the downvotes are because you're behaving like an asshat.

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Kainsley 18 points 3 years ago

Sure,

Lots of replies which don't actually address or respond to comments but rather attempt to put the other person down, example:

Attacking people's replies but then suggesting they replied to the wrong person (which one is it?)

Attacking someone's language/typing skills instead of responding.

Suggesting anyone who disagreed with you are "behaving like redditors"

These little put downs come across as attempting to belittle the person you're replying to and is a common way to "win a debate" by discouraging the other person from replying, in the absence of actually having a discussion.

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Kainsley 17 points 3 years ago

Perfect encapsulation of my point.

Apologies for misquoting you, but the correct quote is equally disingenuous and your attempt to turn my reply into an attack on character instead of answering the question is exactly why you're being downvoted.

You come across as a person who looks for the negative in everything and doesn't actually want to engage but rather make yourself feel superior, but that generally doesn't work outside of traditional social media. I bet you're a joy to work with /s. Have a good day.

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Kainsley 16 points 3 years ago

But that's the point, you aren't actually engaging in the discussion, your questions aren't on topic but are more rhetorical attacks on personality.

If someone at work speaks to you in broken English and your response is "is English even your first language" instead of responding to their comment, then your next conversation would be with HR.

Break it down what are you trying to achieve with that question and how does that add value to the discussion?

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Kainsley 16 points 3 years ago

When exactly did Argentina ever control the Falklands though?

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Kainsley 13 points 3 years ago

Not just less likely to be seen, but now a greater percentage of those views will come from Twitter blue subscribers as well who might not be their intended audience.

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Kainsley 13 points 3 years ago

What are you defending yourself from? No one's attacking you... you asked me why I felt your comments came across that way and I replied. The misquote changes nothing, you still wouldn't ask someone if English is their first language and ignore the comment, to suggest so is clearly ingenuous.

Like I said, you come across as someone who sees the negatives. It looks to me like you think everyone is attacking you and are therefore responding defensively, which then comes across as aggressive.

To answer your question, how would I ask someone? I wouldn't, it's obviously irrelevant, as is this discussion at this point.

As I said, have a good day.

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Kainsley 12 points 3 years ago

It WAS fixed but it's back again, was another account compromised?

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Kainsley 10 points 3 years ago

I can see that in your first comment, but all the responses after that definitely come across as needlessly confrontational and I can't see how you feel that's being "understanding" personally.

That said, it's all good.

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Kainsley 9 points 3 years ago

Never attribute to malice that which is adequately explained by neglect, ignorance or incompetence

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Kainsley 8 points 3 years ago

Interestingly that's the name of a film about...a mass shooter at a school

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Kainsley 7 points 3 years ago

Nothing, except the first paragraph which explains exactly this...

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Kainsley 6 points 2 years ago

Almost all management contracts have a fraternisation clause. If any of these leaks are true (I don't see how they are going to prove it at this point and it all seems a bit funky to me) then it would almost definitely be a fireable offence.

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Kainsley 6 points 3 years ago

Yea, everyone down voting you is wrong, you're the only person who is right. Do you not see the irony?

As for your question, what is the point of coming to a social website if people are not being social? In my opinion (and I'd assume a fair chunk of the people down voting you) everyone else is being social, you're coming across as being anti social.

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Kainsley 6 points 3 years ago

Looks like it's MichelleG again, either the hacker was able to reinstate the account or lemmy.world did and it was instantly compromised again.

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Kainsley 6 points 3 years ago

You got a negative response from me because you asked me a question, I gave a fair response and you got shitty. It's not that hard to understand, if you're rude to people then eventually they'll be rude back.

Re cultural or generational issue, oh come off it mate, if you ask for feedback and then attack people who give it to you, then what do you expect? For reference I'm also 30's, UK. Nope it's not that, you're just needlessly rude.

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Kainsley 6 points 3 years ago

It's not an anything anymore. Devs just went under and the servers will be down once they don't get paid. What a farce!!

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Kainsley 5 points 3 years ago

Lol you responded to the person responsible for said attack, fyi

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