Gonewildaudio, one of the only subreddits stopping me from deleting my accounts and never using the site again ngl

I mean no hate on anyone for having a fetish but I agree. Tbh, one of the reasons I like hentai is not for the anime/art style aspect (I don't even watch anime and it's a struggle trying to keep up with context with these characters, lol). It's just because it's drawn and there's no possible exploitation. I still do watch porn but I try and stay away from studios as much as possible.

Anyway that's relevant because for me I want it to have at least some form of connection to reality in it, a lot of hentai doesn't (why impossibly huge futa dicks don't get me off much either lol).

I don't think there's much of a shift though tbh. Hentai has always been really "out there" and exaggerated since the beginning. You just have to look for good stuff and be discerning. And as you say it is annoying that small tit hentai is almost exclusively loli or at least questionable.

Yeah, I don't see it as a flaw. I already have seperate accounts for this instance and mainstream Lemmy.

I don't agree. Downvotes might be not relevant and counter productive in general discussions, but in porn communities I think they're critically important. If there's no downvotes, spam bots or trolls will overtake communities. Mods can only get to things so fast.

Oh god, I knew I'd come across this image here eventually 🤣 makes me... Feel things... Every time I see it that's for sure...

for me its when the dom is the oxymoron of sadistic and gentle... like the line is definitely blurred a bit but i think you can definitely have that mommydom vibe but still be into like spanking, bondage, etc.

welcome-to-heaven is one of my favourite artists, i linked rule34.xxx so you don't have to go to reddit

in terms of shit i'm not into, cucking, or just in general mean-dom.

I like how we're currently at the stage where male nudity is still upvoted and not completely erased. Won't stay like that for long, though

Never had this fantasy before but you turned me on now, thanks 😝

I think I (and many others) under value dates. It's about building trust and genuinely liking the person as well. I'm kinda not into "hookups" i.e. you meet someone on Grindr jerk each other off then never see each other again.

The anticipation, genuinely having a good time with whatever you're doing, then you can't keep your hands off each other in the car/uber/bus home. I used to have that with my gf, not really anymore unfortunately :/

not sure how big this instance is gonna get, but gonewildaudio is one of my favourite subreddits. I actually have no idea what's going to happen to that subreddit if they decide to not reopen. Because that really was a unique place, most of the rest of the content you can find elsewhere but I genuinely have no idea where to find that kind of stuff if not for reddit.

This is great! Sick of dealing with stupid ai chatbot restrictions lol.

/c/pegging is now open! Please note: I only made this because I couldn't believe it didn't already exist... If anyone else wants to be a mod just let me know, I have 0 experience modding lol just want to jump start it with some posts etc.

If by guilty you mean seems disgusting when not jerking off, or seems somehow "wrong" it's definitely watersports. I'm a switch so I both imagine me pissing on people and getting pissed on.

For me it's definitely about power, I have a friend who's into scat (no kinkshaming, not my thing, but it's very common trust me lol) who, ironically, has to kind of "fake" being into bdsm because the vast majority of people are into scat in the power play way, but he isn't, he just likes that fetish on its own more or less.

I'm not really like that, for me its all about the power exchange. Like I don't think I'd enjoy it outside of a bdsm scene or dynamic.

I'm being a bad shark and nomming on yummy internet cables

That'd be great because pretty much every night I wish my gf had a cock I could like rub up against as she's big-spooning lol, is that weird? Also, so much icky sexism would be removed lol.

yeah, that's good to know, thanks for telling me.

usually what happens with me and cnc is like fucking love it whilst watching, but then I think of the unfortunate implications afterwards... its why hentai/drawn stuff is nice because at the end of the day you know nobody was coerced/pressured/forced to do it because they have no money otherwise.

That's always the dilemma with me as a switch, lol

Cute :3

Fuck, that sucks (for that mod, idk if it was you or just copy pasting). It sucks but you need to have good opsec around these things. I'd say one of the most important things is don't include your face (or tattoos, if they're obvious to your friends/family and visible) in any photo to a stranger. If things were ever getting serious with someone and you wanted to go further, bare minimum is video chat, if they repeatedly say no they're most likely a scammer/catfish, or otherwise not really serious and worth being with.

My gf almost got scammed, she was talking to someone, generic photo, searched reverse image search and nothing which is a good sign, (could have been AI, thinking about it) but then she randomly just asks if she wants a job (employment scam).