Your content seems to be fake, since your story changes so much. If you want to do hypotheticals you should mark them as such so that people know.

I think this kind of content is damaging to the community 😒

I just want to say that "get fucked" is a somewhat offensive term imo 😅 It implies a power dynamic where the man is doing the fucking and the woman only gets fucked. I think a better way to ask this would be "Why shouldn't women fuck..." Or "have sex" etc 😊

As for your question, generally speaking there is no absolute reason not to have sex during your period, but there are some things that can make it harder/unpleasant for some period having people ⚧️

• The blood adds friction, so you might need more lube to keep it pleasant
• the vagina might be sensitive so it might make it painful
• the cramping and general symptoms of a period might just make them not in the mood for it, but it could also do the opposite and make them horny.
• And obviously the blood can make the sex more messy.
• etc

So very individual, i would just define it as just a situation that is different from the "norm" 😄

And a quick note about culture. There are many cultures and religions that define the period as "dirty" in some way and some even go as far as forbidding a man from touching a woman if she is on her period. Fuck that misogynistic bullshit.

Yes, it is very reasonable that something might change.

I like the tea analogy, just imagine that instead of sex you were just sitting for a cup of tea. If you offered tea, she might be excited and happy about it and consent to it. Once she starts drinking the tea maybe something happens, maybe it hurts her stomach? (Totally possible and happens in sex) maybe she changed her mind by the time the tea was made, maybe it didn't taste good, or a million other things. The important part is that she can change her mind, and if that happens, sure you might be disappointed that you worked on preparation and got excited about it and maybe have some extra dishes to wash, but would you be mad at her for it? You shouldn't be, she didn't do anything wrong, she didn't attack you personally, she has no obligation to drink the tea you made, and she has every right to change her mind about drinking it.

Just like tea, you shouldn't force anyone or coerce them into drinking tea. And if they decide to stop, you definitely shouldn't force them to finish it.

Don't be offended, rejection is not a personal attack, just be polite and respectful and accept her choices.

Personally I think the rules should be very simple and easy to follow while keeping it strictly about questions.

Something along the lines of:

• only text type posts, links can be in the body, pictures can be in comments.
• no AMA/horny let's talk
• all questions should be about nsfw
• no promotional content of any kind
• always be respectful

I don't think the comments should be heavily moderated, if someone makes a respectful comment we shouldn't really care even if it is political or not on topic. we should really focus on the post but comments should only be moderated in case of hate/harassment/spam/disrespect

Woke up to my step brother masturbaiting while peeping on me. Went to eat breakfast and got fucked. Did the laundry and got stuck and fucked again. Went to the store and got fucked by a starnger who offered me money. Got to the store and was stopped by security for shoplifting, got fucked. Went home to cook but there was a leak in the sink so I couldn't cook and had a plummer come over, got fucked. Ordered pizza, got fucked. Went to take a shower, got fucked. Went to sleep, had to masturbait to lesbian porn.

You know, a normal female person day 😑

Sleeping partner (consensual) I just assumed they would wake up and it will turn into more regular sex but at some point I realized that I can basically do to them whatever I want and they just wouldn't wake up. It made me feel like it's rape 😖

Since then I have a rule that if they don't wake up after a bit, I quit and go to sleep too 😅

That definition seems confusing and wrong. Isn't it just rape play?

Because the wiki definition makes it sound like you revoke your ability to refuse, which makes no sense, like that can't end in anything good, it's basically invalidating safe words 😅

Nudism has no more sexualization than clothed societies, which to say someone is always going to sexualize you but that does not make it okay or wanted. A nudist event is no different than a regular event, it absolutely does not have any sexual aspect just because people are naked. 😤

Not the fish! They get free food and a show! 🤩

Highly disagree, teens around the world tend to have normal sexual encounters before that age. By setting a minimum age you are just telling your kid to hide it from you until that age, which will probably result in less safe sex in less safe spaces. The right way to approach this is to be attentive and communicate with your child so that you are aware of where they are in their life and can talk to them if needed.

If your child is 14 and intends on having sex, you can either show them that they can come to you for help and guidance, or you can show them that they can't, either way they will probably do what they want.

The awkwardness and discomfort of teens having sex in your house is much better than letting them do it behind your back, possibly in an safe way and in an unsafe place.

For reference: https://www.centreforsexuality.ca/...

Yeah... @Mickey7@lemmy.world you have a valid point but spamming hypotheticals just taints the genuine content that exists by making the community feel less genuine 😔

Dry anal?? 😵😵😵

Anyone who wants to be naked with me 😄 (yay for naturism💪)

Yeah but these fake stories drive people out as well...

Good to know 😵

But not from canada, also I doubt Lemmy is on the radar right now 😅

Had to look it up, pretty hard to watch 😬

CNC is consensual non-consent, ie fake rape.

Just knowing that it is a safe space and talking. Once we reached a point where neither of us felt like the other one would judge, even if we say something very extreme, we just talked and we were both open to try the things that the other wanted at least once.

So not judging or laughing at eachother and just communicating.

I had past relationships that I wasn't ready yet to not judge myself and they never knew my deepest kinks. But with my current partner I am fully open and it's nice. I got to try fantasies that I never thought I'd get to.

Best rythem for beginners right here

Frustrated with the porn industry 🙃

Not a parent here, but dear god, please talk to your kids about sex as soon as possible 🙏

There are age appropriate terms to use, but essentially children should know about it for so many reasons.

• This can help them identify inappropriate behavior from peers and from adults
• It teaches them and prepares them for the real world in a healthy way
• It mitigates any future awkwardness that can lead to poor sexual education
• Reduces the risks associated with sex as they will already be aware of the critical information by the age that they do start exploring
• You would be shocked at how early on children will do sexual actions out of innocent curiosity and self pleasure, this can be okay if they are taught about what is acceptable and what is not.
• Gives them a good foundation for a healthy understanding of sex and their own bodies

For anyone who is unsure: https://www.centreforsexuality.ca/...