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Phoebe 45 points 3 years ago

My boyfriend and i can't wait to watch this movie 😊 💕 (but cinema got expensiv dudeee đŸ„Č)

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Phoebe 44 points 3 years ago

I work with cultural heritage and have the strong believe, that information should be open and easy accessible. Citizen have a right to access to knowledge and to educate themselves unter their circumstanses. But of course the Infrastructur cost money and this should always be a discurse between all parties. And not been dictated by major companies.

It is a really hard fight for museums, archives and libaries lately. What do you do when your electricity bill jumps up to 5 million during the war in the ukrain?

We need to unite and search for ways to keep the Internet accessible.

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Phoebe 33 points 3 years ago

I wanna eat the real spicy food! In germany everything is watered down so n00bs can eat itđŸ„Č

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Phoebe 26 points 3 years ago

Op is my todays hero â˜ș

Cause i am an science historian interessted in the history of psychology and psychiatry. I want to understand why normal citizen are so paranoid when it comes to seeking psychologal help. When i found up what bs doctors in east germany did to their patients...

it is really importaint to double question your knowledge!

What reddit taught me: as a scientist working for a gouverment run institute i had no idea of all the bureaucracy and administration stuff. Redditors from my country told me a lot. Now i know how to nor be a 'arbeitsdrohne'😆

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Phoebe 20 points 3 years ago

Mindwandering while conversation/ sex was always annoying to me. I never understood why i am doing this and how to turn it off, cause "everyone else seems to get it right" and they made me feel bad for it.

It is importaint to talk about these stuff and reach out to people, who feel the same way.

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Phoebe 17 points 3 years ago

Same with my younger sibling. It was very obvios early in their life, but we didn't had words for it either. Didn't understand and didn't took it that serious.

I had my period with 11 years, but suffered till i was 30. Cause it was a tabu to talk about that. I need to Suffer, i was told. BS.

It is crucial to give kids knowledge that they are not wrong. That they are not weird. That they know everything is okay and their parents are here guiding them. AND they need to know that other people are not weird so they can learn empathy.

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Phoebe 17 points 3 years ago

I knew my gender identity was a lie

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Phoebe 13 points 3 years ago

We give kids less money because companies exploid them. Kids don't know their rights and adulds are telling them their not worthy of something like human rights. In most countries childlabor is illegal cause companies will abuse every person that can't defent themself.

Mistakes are part of a normal human being but work tells us we need to fit, so the big tech giant don't lose dome of their money.

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Phoebe 12 points 3 years ago

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Phoebe 11 points 3 years ago

Was eating noodle soup

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Phoebe 10 points 3 years ago

Thanks 😊

Mostly you are right, of course it depence on the country. a lot of institutes are tax funded, but the cost can't be covered just with that. Rent, wages, special rooms for the heritage... the new competitor is everything digital: a homepage, a database, social media. Museums need all of that to stay relevant. but the budget stays the same.

(And of course we depent on open data, to reduce thr dependence on big tech companies)

The war has shown how fragile this is. Cost of electricity had boomt, but there is no room to reduce it. Paintings, glas, it all needs their own temperature. But explain that to someone who is just Management. We scientist/ academics have a weak basis for negotiation, when the administration wants to save money. In my country cultural heritage is clearly not a priority, that leads to institutes having no money and losing relevance. Which is dangerous for the variety of knowledge.

Thanks for giving me the space to shortly explain this. I think we all need to work together to make the web, the heritage accessible! đŸ˜€

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Phoebe 9 points 3 years ago

Yes, i will love and protect them forever.

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Phoebe 9 points 3 years ago

Hm. Mir gefĂ€llt leider nicht der Fokus des Artikels auf das einzelne Individuum. Es klingt so, als sei man selbst schuld, als könne man aus UnfĂ€higkeit heraus alte Muster nicht durchbrechen und mĂŒsse einfach wegrennen, wenn sich gleiche Muster wieder etablieren.

Aber die Perspektive auf das Umfeld wird dabei ignoriert. Wenn eine Frau beispielsweise immer wieder zu hören bekommt, sie sei hysterisch und ĂŒberemotional, wenn sie von Problemen mit ihrem Partner berichtet? Dann ist sie alleine mit ihrem Problem und kann sich keine UnterstĂŒtzung holen. Wenn sie ihren Partner verlĂ€sst, sie ihre Wohnung verliert, vielleicht keine andere Arbeit nach der Zeit der Kindererziehung finden... dann ist das einfach ihr Mindset.

Es gibt reale soziale AbhÀngigkeiten. Reale soziale Probleme. Es gibt mÀnnliche und weibliche Sozialisierung. Die kann man nicht mit dem passenden Mindset Àndern. Man muss aktiv etwas daran Àndern, wie wir alle mit Beziehungen und miteinander umgehen. Nicht nur eine einzige Person.

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Phoebe 9 points 3 years ago

Alles richtig, keine Kritik dazu. Gleichzeitig willst du aber eine Photovoltaikanlage haben und die deutsche Behörde behandelt dich als Privatperson genau so wie RWE, weil du 3 Kilowattstunden ins Stromnetz einspeist. Dann willst du mit der Bahn fahren, aber deine Strecke kostet dich 2 stunden statt ner halben weil Bauarbeiten, Personen im Gleis und ein quiddishhh spiel zusammen stattfinden.

Es gÀbe Möglichkeiten, einen Wandel sozialvertrÀglich zu machen. Aber dieser sollte dann aber auch nicht sabotiert werden vom diversen wichtigen Stellen

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Phoebe 9 points 3 years ago

It is not the problem but a problem. I grew up in a western country and everyone told me, there is no need for feminism anymore. It took me years to understand that's a lie, but if you simply don't know were to get informations... if you are told feminist now are hysterics so you don't seek their help/advise... there is nothing left than to recreate the things you are told.

Cause if you get yourself educated you can easy become social isolated.

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Phoebe 7 points 3 years ago

Ich sehe mich in diesem bild, das gefÀllt mir nicht

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Phoebe 7 points 3 years ago

Thank you for your advice! I turned on two languages im autocorrect, but my smart phone still is getting confused. Cause sometimes i pick Diskussionen instead of discussions or it simply doesn't get the error itself. When i write fast that always makes me anxios

But thank you. That's motivating me!â˜ș

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Phoebe 7 points 3 years ago

As a woman myself... i prefere a game where i can create my own pc and do my own choices. Cause i dislike the presentation of my gender in many games. But it is changing cause of society moving forward.

  1. A game, for maybe in the future, cause it's still in early access: little witch in the woods

  2. Immortal fenix rising has a female lead who is saving all of the greek gods

  3. ...

  4. Profit

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Phoebe 7 points 3 years ago

DĂŒsseldorf, luxury appartement, 1500 €

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Phoebe 7 points 3 years ago

Ich stimme dir zu. Es ist peinlich. Meine Bank kann digital mehr als der öD in seiner Gesamtheit. Und jeder, der fĂŒr den öD in dem Bereich tĂ€tig ist, arbeitet mit Hochdruck an den Themen. Aber es gibt so viele Baustellen und so viele Konflikte. Und die BĂŒrger*innen sind die Leittragenden.

3 Millionen ist so ca. das, was eine Großstadt fĂŒr seine IT-Infrastruktur ausgibt. dieser Betrag fĂŒr ganz Deutschland ist lĂ€cherlich. Die Ausgaben der Behörden fĂŒr IT wĂ€chst, aber das Budget nunmal nicht. Das sorgt dann fĂŒr ganz unangenehme Streichungen... 😼‍💹

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