I think it’s more commonly found in domestic relationships as well. It’s probably most often used to just avoid housework, such as laundry or dishes and other things that men see as “beneath them” (hint: it’s not). Or in the case of people supporting the entire household, it’s not seen as a fair division of labor to also do housework. If one is doing all the work outside the home or paying the overwhelming majority of the household bills, why should one be doing housework too? What responsibilities does the other partner have? So one just F’s up basic jobs and soon the other partner takes over out of frustration.

It can also be seen as the male equivalent of withholding sex when partners are in conflict. For women, withholding sex is commonly used as a form of punishment in relationships to show displeasure at a man’s behavior. It’s denying their bodies to men, which they have every right to do, it’s their bodies their choice, sex should be consensual. For men however, that specific tactic is almost meaningless in many cases (there’s always exceptions to be sure), as women, on average, tend to have a higher tolerance for forgoing sex than men do.

Enter weaponized incompetence. Men are typically relied on to do most of the “grunt” work and many repair jobs around the household, their bodies are used to affect change on their environment. So if they simply withhold their own bodies to be used to repair or move heavy objects or whatever, that’s also their prerogative and it can bring a household to a halt. Nobody can force you to fix an electrical outlet or change a flat tire or repair a washer/dryer or whatever else men are relied on for. Men can simply deny the use of their bodies for basic things that everyone else takes for granted, it’s their bodies their choice, labor should be consensual.

I don’t know that there’s anything appropriate, I just go with cringe or try to make a stupid joke. Does anybody actually read porn comments? I’m not sure what else you can say? Serious critique of the lighting? Intellectual deconstruction of the porn’s intent? Cum-taste enhancement recipes? Comment on some feature in their bedroom/house/wherever?

We’re looking at pics of their nude bodies because it makes our genitals feel funny, the whole situation is just so absurdly ridiculous that nothing you say will be or not be appropriate. Though I guess complaining, insults, or implied violence is a general no-no.

I comment like that as a joke most of the time, especially on some of these Instagram accounts where chicks are pulling their skirts up splaying their crotch at like a gas pump or some other weirdly public setting.

“Excuse me, ma’am, you’ve been here 20 min, are you going to fill your tank up or what? If you’re not getting gas, I’m going to have to ask you to leave.”

Thanks, I always wondered what the etiquette was if I were to ever get into a DP situation.

I don’t mean this in a derogatory way because I like women like this too, but “bimbo” or “bimbo fetish” is probably what you’re looking for, that’s kind of the stereotypical “look” for them. Bimbos need love too.

The one with the giant mammaries.

Would you be mine, could you be mine, won’t you be my neighbor?

I think it’s possible to lose sexual interest in some things, our sexual tastes can change over time or with intentional work. Some things may be more deeply ingrained and are probably impossible to change, but other things I think can be changed from exposure (or lack of exposure) to different stimuli.

c/AccidentalRenaissance

I know the question was directed towards women, but, as a guy, a handjob would take longer than quickie sex, women just usually don’t know what they’re doing. It’s the same way it probably wouldn’t be helpful for a guy to try to rub a woman’s pussy to get her off, we just don’t know what feels good for you as much as you know your own body. You may as well just ask me to jerk myself off while you rub my balls than try a “quick” handjob, unless you’re an expert at it. May depend on the guy though, mileage may vary.

Slava Ukraini

Probably a stereotypical ~40 yr old straight white guy, I mostly watch alot of big titty porn, mostly black women, though it’s all over the place in terms of race. For some reason I like watching orgies or gangbangs, not quite sure why, though I have a slight domination/rape fetish too, so anything that kind of gets into that domination territory is what gets me off. Honestly though, I’ve been pretty depressed lately after a breakup, so I almost have to force myself to get horny, just to make sure the plumbing still gets something moving through the pipes occasionally.

It’s just not my cup of tea, lesbian porn in general is just like, “What’s the point of this?” But I think with porn in general, I don’t know that I really imagine myself in any of the roles, even of men. I like seeing the reactions of women’s bodies as things are done to them, but men should mostly fade into the background, they’re just things that make women’s bodies jiggle and moan.

Tomb Raider has made me waste more semen than anything else, specifically due to one really nice hentai comic I remember from years ago, though can’t remember the artist (q-bit or something like that?). Close seconds might be Final Fantasy (specifically Tifa), Dead or Alive, and Resident Evil. There’s just alot of good hentai content out there for all those series’.

M - Rape fetish. That’s something that wouldn’t come up for a loooooooooong time and only if I had some inkling that it wouldn’t trigger anything or blow up in my face or that she already had some fantasies like that. I guess it’s a somewhat common fantasy for some women too, but given the potentially violent nature of it, I wouldn’t want to open up some old trauma or give them the wrong idea. It’s weird to think about anyways, “Hey, I want you to pretend like you don’t want sex with me, but you’re going to let me have it anyways.” Like, wtf?

Maserati XXX, Hitomi Tanaka, and Rachel Raxxx had been my personal favorites, but they’re sadly retired and I just haven’t found anyone that scratches the same itch.

It must be a weight-lifting routine just walking around with those on a daily basis.

Thanks, I feel like I can recognize that cleavage anywhere now.

Chicks dig eels

11, 1, 8, 6, 12, 2, 4, 10, 7, 5, 9, 3