There's !selfhost@lemmy.ml and !selfhosted@lemmy.ml

I think the majority of us are kinda stumbling around in the dark still. MUCH different from having everything being centralized. That's both a strength and a weakness of the fediverse. Not having a good mobile app for Lemmy is also a severe hindrance, at least for me, as 99.9% of my social interaction is done from my phone.

Welcome, though! Glad you found us!