I’m starting to worry that we might not be compatible when it comes to our priorities and what we both want from a relationship.

Thank you.

I also took into account that he can be a bit childish. At first, I thought maybe that was just him opening up to me and becoming more comfortable around me. I figured that guys can be like that when they’re close to someone. I also thought being childish could just mean being playful, but now I’m starting to wonder if I misunderstood what I was seeing and if it was actually immaturity instead.

The problem is that, after reflecting on myself, I realize I can be childish too. Because of that, I feel like bringing it up would make me sound hypocritical. I don’t want to criticize him for something I also do, but at the same time, I don’t want to ignore something that genuinely bothers me.

I honestly don’t know what to do with this predicament.

Genuinely, at this point, it’s hard for me to have a conversation with him without feeling hurt, offended, or just leaving with a bad feeling. I know I might sound dramatic, but these feelings are real, and they’ve been affecting how I see our relationship.

I don’t want to end things with him because I still care about him and I still want what we have. But at the same time, I don’t want to make things official or move forward if I’m already unhappy with how I’m being treated now.

Part of me keeps thinking that maybe I should just wait and give him time to change. But I’m starting to realize that I can’t keep waiting and hoping he’ll become more attentive or understanding when I’ve already told him what I need. I don’t want to pressure him into changing, but I also don’t want to keep ignoring my own feelings just to make the relationship work.

Pretty deep. I’ll definitely consider your suggestion.

I’ve already brought this topic up multiple times, and I’ve honestly been pretty blunt about how I feel and what I need from him. Sadly, nothing has really changed after those conversations.

If you still think I should give it another chance and talk to him about it again, then of course I’m willing to do that. I just don’t want to keep repeating myself if nothing is going to happen afterward.