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Tonuka 112 points a year ago

Corporations supporting pride are canaries in the coalmine. When they stop chirping, you know something is wrong.

Besides, I don't like cynicism. Yeah, most big corps don't give a fuck. And this is what this meme is about. But regular gays work everywhere, and support does make a difference in those places

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Tonuka 86 points 23 days ago

I can't remember the title but that's pretty much the same plot as the first english romance novel ever written.

It "makes sense" considering the honor-shame society the story was created for. A pure, pious woman is pitted against a shameful, violent man. The central motif is the radiant woman purifying the shameful man who converts (to Christianity) and courts the woman according to social norms instead of violently raping her. This is framed as a good ending because his shame is removed.

If you value innocence over honor this is completely incomprehensible. The guilt is still there, it was never accounted for.

Edit: Oh, and Marry-your-rapist-laws were and are still more common than you might know. Even if countries that don't have one, individual courts may still decide that way.

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Tonuka 81 points a year ago

Holy shit, you're not lying. The literal first Post on his Twitter

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Tonuka 73 points a year ago

In some countries it's actually required for therapists to periodically see a therapist. To avoid getting retraumatized by their patients trauma and such

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Tonuka 65 points 23 days ago

Post text be like "we're worried kittenz may be a tankie" meanwhile the attached screenshots are all "I'm an unironic tankie I use that word to describe myself I'm not a tankie but I love the USSR I think using tanks to crush dissent is good"

Yeah I think you maybe did the right thing

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Tonuka 51 points a year ago

reddit has /r/TwoXChromosomes which is one of my favorite subs. It's a general womens subreddit, and though it obviously leans feminist it's not its main purpose. It welcomes all genders, but remains a womens space.

The fediverse could really use that energy.

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Tonuka 51 points a month ago

these memes fucking suck lately omg

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Tonuka 30 points 17 days ago

fuuuck what book is this again?

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Tonuka 29 points a year ago

You're lying.

Russia had been directly involved in the war against Ukraine since 2014, it militarily invaded Ukraine when it occupied the Crimea, and russian soldiers have been fighting Ukraine in Donbass since day 1.

Russia did not use a "pretext" for invasion, it simply created the pretext itself. What you call protests in eastern Ukraine was the armed struggle of Girkin, a russian secret service member. Without this Russian interference, there is no donbas seperatism.

You're right about one thing: The invasion had nothing to do with internal politics. It was however, about the antagonism of democracy and empire. Russian ultranationalists never accepted Ukraine, and 2014 was simply the first step towards its destruction.

When you talk of "spheres", you parrot the ideological worldview of Putin. He has sung the praise of a "multipolar world" for years now. The issue is that humanism and democracy recognize no spheres. Instead, every country should be allowed to decide for itself what path it takes. That is the pretext for invasion, do deny Ukraine that right.

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Tonuka 27 points 23 days ago

Well you have to wonder if at a support so high Wikimedia couldn't skip the "fight and win" stage to earn some goodwill which might get them more favourable terms. In open confrontation, everyone loses. Takes energy away from everything else and generates a ton of bad publicity.

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Tonuka 24 points a year ago

In Germany there's a word for the strategy you're proposing: in der Regierung "entzaubern" - "demystifying" them in government.

As someone has said, the Nazis were lifted into a coalition government which was the last step before their takeover of the country. I agree that this was bad, but it's a bit simple to compare this to the current situation.

A better comparison is Austria. Austria did exactly what you proposed - the establishment conservatives went into coalition with the extremist right, and after one election, they were able to ditch them. Cool. But the effect of this was permanently legitimizing the right. In the last election the FPÖ, a party founded by actual old nazis, won a plurality of votes. It took a grand coalition of three parties to keep them out of government.

What else is there to do? In Germany and Austria, the right is much more extreme than in Finland. Germany is also a lynchpin in european politics, which the right wants to destroy. In Finland, even the right is anti-russia. In Germany, it's the conservatives who traditionally dominate. When they compete with the extremist right, they're not on the other side of the political spectrum, just a little to the center. In Finland, when the social democrats point out the mistakes of the right, they're more believable and persuasive, because they're actually markedly different from the party they're criticizing.

There is another way to combat the right. When the center holds, and is able to agree on certain principles, they can "quarantine" the right. If they don't, they'll be unable to compete with other democratic parties, and have to compete only with the right. If they do quarantine, they can ignore the right, while focusing on their actual bread-and-butter issues while avoiding being pulled into a bullshit spiral. This is the current strategy of the german democratic parties (CDU/CSU, SPD, Greens, Linke). It remains to be seen if the strategy will survive the next four years. If it doesn't, I prophesy dark trouble for germany.

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Tonuka 22 points 14 days ago

Einen eigenen Suchindex ist genau das was wir brauchen. Freue mich wenn das mal auch auf Deutschland ausgeweitet wird

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Tonuka 22 points a month ago

wenn man mit Bildverarbeitungssoftware rumblödelt wird man mit der zeit besser und kann am ende in 5min nem besseres bild als die KI ausspucken

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Tonuka 20 points a year ago

Same reason womens magazines are more popular than mens magazines and womens subreddits and websites are more popular than mens.

Maybe one day we'll have full equality and it'll be weird to think of "women's spaces" as something that's necessary. But it's very much so today.

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Tonuka 20 points a year ago

Still no lemmy lol

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Tonuka 19 points a year ago

Why should they want to do that? That's not how most sites for women work!

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Tonuka 18 points a month ago

Conservatives made sequels to Jarhead

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Tonuka 18 points a month ago

B und H sind die einzigen die im Querformat sind und keine verdammten Menschen drauf haben, deshalb meine Favoriten

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Tonuka 18 points a year ago

are you saying it's unreasonable to ask not to be called something you don't want to be called?

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Tonuka 17 points a month ago

I see. I did not know

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