OMG, this reminds me of when I shared my paper diagnosis with my new therapist...the diagnosis that had been so freeing, so life-changing...she read through it, said it was "dark and tragic" and that "it made her so sad."

She wasn't my therapist for very long.

I have nine tanks. Two are community tanks, three are Betta tanks, three are shrimp tanks, one is a snail tank. All are heavily planted.