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akfdmfckwrl

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akfdmfckwrl 5 points 20 hours ago

Jeg er autist, men blev i første omgang diagnosticeret med en blandet personlighedsforstyrrelse, da piger ikke kunne have autisme, og jeg næsten levede op til kriterierne for at have en ængstelig evasiv personlighedsforstyrrelse. Jeg var meget ung da jeg fik diagnosen og havde haft nogle meget turbulente teenageår, så der er stort set ikke nogen af symptomerne som har hængt ved ind i voksenlivet, ud over selvfølgelig dem der kom fra autismen.

Den diagnose har resulteret i, at der af og til står at jeg har borderline i mine papirer, på trods af at jeg ikke har det, og aldrig er blevet diagnosticeret med det. Det er åbenbart bare den personlighedsforstyrrelse som er mest kendt, og så må det jo være den rigtige.

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akfdmfckwrl 3 points 20 hours ago

Jeg har ikke den store erfaring med kaniner, men jeg tænker om man ikke kan få/lave nogle flasker, som er åbne/utætte i toppen, så der ikke skabes overtryk i flasken, når de fryser?

Til heste isolerer vi ofte vandtrugene med halm, og det hjælper lidt. Dvs. at man fx. har en balje som der er vand i, som så står i en lidt større balje, hvor hulrummet mellem de to baljer, er fyldt med halm. Når det drejer sig om mindre vandflasker, kan jeg forestille mig at det kunne fungere godt, at klippe et liggeunderlag eller lignende til, og klistre eller binde til flasken.

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akfdmfckwrl 6 points 3 days ago

Not to mention that many of them are NIMBYs, and block any new buildings from going up, to protect their own assets.

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akfdmfckwrl 1 point 3 days ago

When the harm you cause by flying just isn't enough, so you start bringing 2 tons of luggage with you.

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akfdmfckwrl 3 points 4 days ago

Min mor havde slet ikke nogen venner da jeg var lille, men begyndte at få det omkring 45-års-alderen, da hun blev (lokal)politisk aktiv og igen begyndte at dyrke hendes hobbyer. I dag har hun et relativt stort netværk, men hun dyrker det selvfølgelig på en anden måde end en teenager.

Jeg er selv autist, og oplever ikke at jeg får det samme ud af sociale relationer som neurotypiske mennesker gør, og desuden sluger det rigtig meget energi, hvilket jeg i forvejen ikke har så forfærdeligt meget af. Derfor har jeg af eget valg, ikke nogen rigtige venner mere. Jeg synes dog ikke at det er svært at komme i kontakt med andre mennesker, heller ikke selvom jeg er fyldt 30, og for få år siden er flyttet til en ny lille by. Jeg har mange gode bekendtskaber gennem mine hobbyer, helt sikkert også nogle som kunne blive til mere, hvis jeg kunne overskue det. Det er selvfølgelig ikke det samme som at være slyngveninder med ens sidemakker i skolen, men til gengæld kan man "bruge" hinanden på en helt anden måde som voksen, og det er stort set kun fantasien som sætter grænserne for hvad man kan sammen.

Der er rigtig mange mennesker som er ensomme, og som gerne vil andre mennesker, det handler bare om at finde dem. Find nogle miljøer hvor folk har tid og overskud til at være passionerede/nørdede/underlige, og ikke bare kommer en gang ugentligt mellem arbejde og børneputning, og vær åben. Nogle gange tror jeg at man kan blive fastlåst i tanken om at venskaber altid skal være med ligesindede, mens dem som er bedst til at finde voksenvenner typisk er mere åbne for at man ikke nødvendigvis behøves at have den samme alder, tilhøre den samme sociale klasse, eller være det samme sted i livet.

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akfdmfckwrl 52 points 9 months ago

As did Sweden, Norway and France.

EDIT: And as a Dane, I am so grateful toward our real allies!

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akfdmfckwrl 16 points 8 months ago

As I bicyclist I never feel like I have trouble spotting pedestrians at night, no matter what they're wearing, even though I have significantly less lights on my bike than a car has. Maybe because I try to stay aware, and slow down if I feel like my speed starts to endanger other people. On the other hand, in the past two years I have almost been driven straight into four times, in the middle of the day:

  1. I was riding in the bike lane, when a car exiting from a side road forgot to check whether it was clear, and instead continued straight ahead. Car had a yield line.
  2. I was riding inside a roundabout, when a car tried to enter, almost hitting me.
  3. I was riding in the same roundabout, when a bus forgot to check for traffic, swinging left (going against the direction of traffic) as if it was a regular intersection, and almost hitting me. This is a tiny roundabout, so this is technically the way a bus is supposed to navigate it, but obviously only once it is empty.
  4. I was riding down the road (no bike lane) when a huge lorry suddenly turned from the other lane, going straight towards me while yelling. I still have no idea what was going on there.

If someone is distracted or otherwise driving unsafely, it doesn't matter what you wear. Unfortunately, a lot of people are using their phones while driving, going above the speed limit, not slowing down when conditions are bad or simply not treating driving with the needed respect.

As a girl, a defining moment for me, was when I heard about an exhibition showcasing what rape victims were wearing when they were raped. Some were wearing children's-sized nightdresses and ugly waterproof clothing. I think a similar exhibition showing what pedestrians and cyclists were wearing, as they were run down, would be an eye-opener for many people. I try to be reasonably careful, both as a woman and as a vulnerable road user, but I have long ago decided not to treat my fellow citizens as potential rapists or murderers.

What personal safety precautions you take when you're in a vulnerable position, is a personal matter. When your actions endanger other people, it becomes a public matter.

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akfdmfckwrl 15 points a month ago

An e-bike, since OP wants a modern vehicle.

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akfdmfckwrl 12 points 9 months ago

In that case, you should change the scale to match how hot/cold it actually gets outside. In many parts of the world, and even in North America, it regularly goes below 0F or above 100F.

"How hot it feels" is highly subjective. I would absolutely melt at 100F but feel fine at 0F, and nothing feels colder than those rainy windy days when it's 5C outside.

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akfdmfckwrl 11 points 2 months ago

Yderkommunerne har lave indtægter og mange socialt tunge borgere, og i stigende grad også mange ældre og plejekrævende borgere. Man bør anerkende at de løser en vigtig og dyr samfundsopgave, og give dem midlerne til at løse den ordentligt, fremfor at kræve at den løses for egen regning, og på bekostning af resten af kommunens borgere.

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akfdmfckwrl 10 points 7 months ago

Jeg håber på en stabil regering, hvor de ekstreme højrefløjspartier holdes helt udenfor indflydelse. Jeg ville have det fint med endnu en midterregering, en ren rød (mindretals)regering, eller en regering som strækker sig fra Ø til M. Personligt stemmer jeg grønt, så jeg håber selvfølgelig også at den kan få et grønt islæt.

Det er en kritisk tid for Danmark og Europa, og jeg håber at vi kan få fire år til med nogenlunde normale mennesker ved roret.

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akfdmfckwrl 6 points 8 months ago

If enough people do something wrong, it becomes right.

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akfdmfckwrl 5 points 8 months ago

I'm not defending that way of thinking, it just seems to be what often happens.

As an example, it took a lot of work to limit secondhand smoking in my country. I remember in the 90's when cars and houses were sometimes thick with smoke, even with kids present, and even though people already knew the risks of secondhand smoking. People thought it was bullshit that they weren't allowed to smoke inside bars and restaurants, on the train or while waiting for public transport. Everyone knew that it was wrong to subject other people to secondhand smoke but to a lot of people it was just the way of life, and therefore right.

I can't even remember the last time I saw someone smoke in public, and I think most people would consider it unacceptable to smoke around children, but it has taken decades to get to this point.

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akfdmfckwrl 5 points 8 months ago

Right now, by ebike. In the past I have walked, ridden a regular bike or taken the bus. I do about 100 kilometers a week on my ebike, maybe 5 on my regular bike for errands within town, if I don't just walk, and also occasionally use the bus or train.

Rural or urban, I have always prioritized living somewhere where I can easily get to where I need to be, by using either public or active transport. I will also happily use digital alternatives like online grocery shopping etc. when it makes sense to. I grew up somewhere super rural (for Denmark) and even did part of my high school online, because doing it offline would have required commuting 3-4 hours by bus or 1,5 by car in total, each and every day. Right now I live in a small Danish town with about 10k inhabitants, with busses and trains, and close enough to the countryside that I was able to find a place to keep our two ponies within biking distance.

I'm in my early thirties and don't even have a driver's license.

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akfdmfckwrl 5 points 7 months ago

Jeg tror en del rigtige danskere ville blive overraskede over at de ikke længere er det, hvis man skal gå ud fra den definition. Mange kender meget lidt til deres oldeforældre, og det vil næsten kræve DNA-tests og fastlæggelse af ens stamtræ, hvis man skal være helt sikker på at ingen af ens 8 oldeforældre var udlændinge.

Min faster begyndte at slægtsforske lidt for sjov, for nogle år siden, og det viste sig at en af deres oldefædre var sigøjner. Det er ellers en pæredansk familie, men ud fra den definition er min far og hans søster altså efterkommere.

Både min far og hans søster fandt sammen med udlændinge (fra andre EU-lande), og deres status som etnisk danske har betydet at vi, i min generation, også officielt er blevet betegnet som etnisk danske. Nu er vi indvandrere og efterkommere, hele bundet.

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akfdmfckwrl 5 points a month ago

Aftalen er endnu ikke underskrevet, og vi har kun for alvor Trumps ord for hvad den indeholder. Kender man ham ret, kan han nå at ombestemme sig mange gange, inden den er underskrevet og træder i kraft, og det er også meget muligt at han har misforstået indholdet.

Det er nok for tidligt at juble/panikke.

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akfdmfckwrl 4 points 7 months ago

Det er opløftende at læse, at selvom emnerne ikke længere fylder så meget i medierne, så er de ikke glemt. Jeg er teknisk set stadigvæk ung lidt endnu, og det er også det vigtigste emne for mig.

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akfdmfckwrl 4 points 5 months ago

Min generation sad og så Jackass, og alligevel overlevede de fleste af os.

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akfdmfckwrl 4 points 9 months ago

Alternativt LPT: Tjen så lidt, at du ikke betaler skat.

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akfdmfckwrl 4 points 23 days ago

Hvor ville du sætte krydset, hvis der var valg i morgen?

  • [ ] Socialdemokratiet.
  • [ ] Al-Qaeda.
  • [ ] Nyt system, tak!

Hvis man vælger valgmulighed 3, skal man naturligvis ikke have statsborgerskab.

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