Four orgasms at the same time? You can try, but how about having fun instead, rather than timing the whole thing?

1. Getting blown, standing up, by a woman kneeling from me, while I am kissing my gf, also standing in front of me.
2. A double triple blowjob
3. An orgy, with everything everywhere happening all at once
4. My gf wants to get gang-banged, so: my gf getting gangbanged
5. A week-end of full on sex with friendly couples, in a sunny place
6. Sex with people of different ethnicities than mine

Considering that my gf and I are embarked on a swinger journey, I hope I'll revisit this list in a year, adding checkmarks. :)

We went to our favorite swinger club again last week end. It was quite full, there was plenty to see and we tried to give people a show. My gf loved being taken on the gynecological chair (again). We made a few new acquaintances, people were relaxed and sexy. And as usual, we'be been fucking like bunnies ever since. Quite excited to meet another couple in private in the coming days. Good times. :)

As a single man, you're one of very many, and part of a group who is usually frowned upon, as some single men just don't know how to behave.

Meeting swingers should not be the major issue, clubs will let you in if you dress and behave accoridngly, though couple nights will be out-of-reach for you. Then, don't be pushy, don't be salty, behave like a human being and remember that swingers are regular people. It might not be "all the fun", but you'll get an idea of the scene. Have fun!

Germany. And would love to get this community going.

We had our first date with another couple. We already knew that we were not going to end up in the sack, but a four-way flirt was exciting. It took a little bit of liquid courage, but all went well. The other couple were very engaging, the female half obviously was interested in my girlfriend, and we ended up staying five hours in a bar. Nice! We plan on visiting a swinger club with them next time.

Besides this, lots of sex at the moment, from cuddly loving one to bondage sessions. :)

I don't think she does. The chair is not so much of a gateway to a doctor fantasy than a way to just hit the perfect angle.

You're not the only one who enjoys watching us on this chair, quite a few people did. :)

I don't understand the hate. I have been using Manjaro as my sole OS on two machines (a Thinkpad with XFCE, a Surface with Gnome) for several years, and have never had any major problem. Everything just works. The same could be said of Mint (which I used to be on before Manjaro), but I enjoy having faster updates on Manjaro. So I guess, from experience, I am very happy with it.

That'd be a start. :)

I would definitely be in favor of having a swinger community here (text only). That subreddit was quite a help for newbies.

I have, we'll see.

BTW, this reminds me that we wanted to start a Swingers community here: https://lemmy.tf/c/swingers@lemmynsfw.com

Let's get this thing going. However, is the community's creator Ixatfox@lemmynsfw.com still around? If not, should we open a new one?

Are you sure it exists and / or that the link is right? I can't find the community, sadly.

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