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@lemmy.world

cakeslayer 49 points 3 years ago

I'm old, but it took a lot of time to network/socialize. I know there's books/material to socialize now. I have learned to grey rock, and just go neutral with giving a response to most situations.

This is a learned thing. No one teached us this back in the 80s or earlier. Life isn't easy, we learn as we get older. Yes, it's hard, but if some random person asks about your day, just say "great, how about you?". Put the focus back on them. Let them talk. Just listen. Oh, their grandma passed away last week? "Damn, I'm sorry to hear that. Let's remember her legacy, and know that she lived to her fullest."

We are all still animals at the end of the day. You can make mistakes! Learn from them, and move on. Learn as you go.

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cakeslayer 37 points 3 years ago

I don't believe in any deities. Although, Greek mythology really would be cool if it was real.

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cakeslayer 25 points 3 years ago

"And here is the guest room! With it's very own entrance! Your guests can come and go as they want and it doubles as a patio AND a place to store your car! We are not responsiblefor carbon monoxide poisoning."

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cakeslayer 23 points 3 years ago

Yep. Someone was talking about ear piercings and bodily autonomy. I commented that I wanted my ears pierced and my grandma took me to her doctor to have them professionally done instead of going to Claire's. Got downvoted to hell. Wtf.

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cakeslayer 20 points 3 years ago

I upvote pissed off cute kitties

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cakeslayer 16 points 3 years ago

Lemmy.world was my first choice, and I'm glad I stuck through it. I'm 4 weeks in and I've seen this community grow and iron out the kinks. The hell if I'm ever going back to reddit.

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cakeslayer 7 points 3 years ago

I wish there weren't so many popup ads in that website. Trying to scroll down to the ingredient list is troublesome.

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cakeslayer 6 points 3 years ago

I do that but I dip them in my tomato soup.

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cakeslayer 5 points 3 years ago

It was 1986. I remember it well. My Grandma was a gem!

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cakeslayer 5 points 3 years ago

Seeing this at 7:35am and now wanting a white russian

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cakeslayer 4 points 3 years ago

I'd live in that post-apocalyptic world. Damn, now I want to make a new world on minecraft with this pic as inspiration!

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cakeslayer 4 points 3 years ago

Baby got back 🤣

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cakeslayer 4 points 3 years ago

Ouch! That sounds painful!

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cakeslayer 3 points 3 years ago

Make that 101. Glad to join you glorious heathens 👋

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cakeslayer 3 points 3 years ago

This, but make it a Ritz cracker mmmm

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cakeslayer 3 points 3 years ago

I've made this twice in the airfryer, they came out so damn good!

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cakeslayer 3 points 3 years ago

I live in Oklahoma, and it's been raining every freakin day. I've missed out on so much outdoor activity, I feel like I'm going stir crazy. I need some sunshine. It was sunny most of the day. But I was at work from 2-10. Was a great day tho. I was informed today that my background check cleared and now I've been officially promoted to assistant manager at a fast casual sandwich shop based in Austin, TX.

So yeah, working a lot, but it's worth it. My boss is amazing, treats me so well, and I like 99% of my coworkers. I just wish it would stop raining for just 1 day.

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cakeslayer 2 points 3 years ago

I don't have much time outside of work but I love to walk, go camping, play video games, cook. I'd like to get back into sewing clothes and painting.

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cakeslayer 2 points 3 years ago

Glad to be here! F reddit

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cakeslayer 2 points 3 years ago

Oooh yeah spread some cheese or butter on that! 🤤

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thanks for using Leebra!

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