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deelayman

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deelayman 33 points a year ago

Sir, this is Canada.

Red means Grits.

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deelayman 30 points 3 years ago

Lower concentration of water vapour in farts than in breath. So farts are not a visible in cold weather.

I think it's more likely these will just get condensation from your natural body sweat.

I hate myself for engaging with this thread.

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deelayman 27 points 3 years ago

I think another big difference is Lemmy still feels like it is inviting at least a small amount of conversation. Whereas Reddit increasingly feels to me like it collectively prefers to upvote only one correct answer, and stamp down everything else.

I think with federation in general we have more of a chance to preserve what we value in each instance. Whether that is constructive conversation, or cited responses, or memes only/ no memes...

I look forward to being a part of multiple, quite different feeling networks of communities.

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deelayman 24 points 3 years ago

I get that this doesnt matter for a lot of people, but i specifically chose my bank because it had close ties with Plaid (API aggregator) - the closest we currently have to open banking. To me, it just seems so fundamentally simple to be able to offer a way to export your own transaction information to whoever you agree to share it with. Boggles my mind that we dont have this already.

In Canada, the thing that makes people hesitate when giving financial data to an app is where liability sits when sharing your account details. Right now, because i'm sharing my credentials with Plaid some banks would refuse to reimburse you if you were subsequently hacked - regardless of the leak source. When open banking legislation comes into effect, this liability will be shifted to the data brokers (plaid), and potentially also the thrid party applications that do things with your financial data.

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deelayman 14 points 3 years ago

I asked a couple with a 3 year old daughter how they get around without a car, and they said they cycle by default and use a car-share service occasionally for longer journeys. The amount they save on insurance alone pays for the car-shares and short term car rentals to get out of the city for a few days.

Suburbs and rural areas can benefit from electric bikes to an extent. And a more deliberate focus on building transit oriented communities should help quite a bit.

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deelayman 12 points 2 years ago

If you're still trying to conceive, have patience and don't put too much pressure on yourselves. It helped me to go through the mental exercise of thinking that even if we couldnt conceive for many years, I would still be happy and fulfilled by adopting and spending life with my partner that way.

It didn't take us years, but it also didn't take us one try. My doctor saw a low sperm count and that prompted some lifestyle changes. I biked to work every day, and stopped that, I cut out caffeine and alcohol, and I bought some boxers with some support and breathability. Those changes made the biggest difference in sperm count, as I was back up above average in under two months. By all means take the supplements they might offer, but the biggest outcomes will be from your own lifestyle changes.

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deelayman 11 points 3 years ago

It's been about two years since I did my last one, but I wrote a few things down at one point for reference:

  1. Eat carb rich breakfast on the day of, and aim to eat a small snack every hour after this
  2. Try to drink a bottle per hour. I have one kidney and this worked well for me. I normally throw in some electrolyte powder every few bottles or bring banana or two.
  3. Start standing out of saddle to stretch early and often
  4. Change hand positions often
  5. I start to stiffen up if breaking for more than 10 minutes at a time

Have fun 😊

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deelayman 11 points 3 years ago

There are separated bike lanes along Yonge between Davisville and Bloor.

Bloor has separated bike lanes that extend pretty far east and west. You can take bloor over to either University, Bay or Sherborne to go further south. Sherborne and University have a seperated bike lane, and Bay has a designated lane with a painted line or shared lane with cars depending on the stretch. Sherborne or University would be safer but may be a bit further to ride.

You can check out Google maps streetview to get a sense of the intersections and streets you'll need to navigate. Also Toronto publishes a map of all bike lanes here https://www.toronto.ca/...

Bike lanes technically have a lower threshold for snow accumulation before dedicated plowing is triggered. In practice, you can't always expect them to be clear enough to use. My advice is to test it as long as you can in the winter. Often you'll find that you need to upgrade specific pieces of clothing (gloves, face covering, boots, pants etc) to have a comfortable ride for yourself. You might find that your bike needs alterations as well (fenders, fatter tires), but sometimes people opt to.ride a "beater" bike through winters due to the general havok it wreaks on the precision parts of bikes from corrosion and debris. Having a plan for how to clean your bike regularly in the cold weather is a must IMO.

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deelayman 8 points 3 years ago

As others have pointed out, maybe look for a hobby.

Take baby steps towards becoming more involved in the things that youre passionate about. Housing affordability, the climate, and other things are on everyone's mind these days, and maybe there's something there that you have some strong feelings about. Look for virtual municipality or state/province public consultations about those things (e.g. new housing development consultations), and lend your voice to it. Meet new people with the same ideas.

Tldr, Try to make some of your free time into something self-directed, constructive and fulfilling (instead of passive algorithm surfing).

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deelayman 7 points 3 years ago

Beware of all enterprises that require new clothes, and not rather a new wearer of clothes. -Henry David Thoreau


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deelayman 7 points 3 years ago

As an adult with mild ADHD I can admit that my cellphone poisons productivity. I can imagine not doing so well in school if the same fully fledged dopamine machines existed when I was a kid.

At the same time, I can't imagine a full ban on cellphones being the reasonable course of action. There's probably a compromise in there somewhere.

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deelayman 6 points 3 years ago

Do you download the 4k Linux ISOs?

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deelayman 5 points 3 years ago

Is that a compressed air horn?

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deelayman 5 points 2 years ago

Actually went to a theatre to see it. I like my films to be open to interpretation, not barely intelligible. Didn't have a lot to talk about on the way home from that screening.

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deelayman 5 points 3 years ago

With bill 124 scrapped, the public service unions are using their contract reopener clauses to negotiate retroactive wage increases. That should make a dent!

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deelayman 5 points 3 years ago

The problem is Plaid et al are forced to scrape webpages because banks dont offer an alternative. Banks currently hold the user liable for sharing their password if theres a breach, but this new open banking legislation will shift that liability to plaid/third parties.

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deelayman 4 points 3 years ago

Question: if I got myself banned from the NSFW instance, would it still show up in my feed, and just prevent me from posting there?

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deelayman 4 points 3 years ago

I love your honesty. I expect for many people it's more about losing what they're comfortable with. For others there are legitimate functionalities that perhaps don't exist yet in the native app - a former mod will need to chime in, as I'm not sure about specifics.

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deelayman 4 points 3 years ago

The subway was down between woodbine and Broadview this weekend, and shuttle buses ran that length along Danforth. Seeing a line of 6 buses stuck in traffic really highlights the effectiveness of the subway service we have and why we need more of it.

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deelayman 4 points 3 years ago

I had to make a choice between being able to be financially in the green and BG3. I'm afraid I won't get to share your joy for at least a few months. I am so happy that the hype is real. Can't wait!

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thanks for using Leebra!

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