Im old enough to miss chat rooms on aol. Anything like that still exist?

My 36f wife 35f have recently decided to make our relationship officially poly. She is my primary but we live 250mi apart. She has a male meta and at the moment I have a female comet. I've been dating for the first time in 20 years and looking to find a "daily driver" partner. Its a new lifestyle for me but I'm thoroughly enjoying it.