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lobster_irl 26 points 3 years ago

I don’t think I’ve ever been referred to as female outside of someone being creepy… I also haven’t heard men referred to as „males“ outside of bad romance novels either. You may now downvote :P

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lobster_irl 24 points 3 years ago

So this was super interesting and I went to check out the watches… why why why why why is every watch a variation of the color of the associated planet and goddamn Venus is pink?! Because clearly they needed a lady watch and us ladies always want pink? Grrrrr pointlessly gendered. Sorry I got carried away, anyway nice writeup.

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lobster_irl 20 points 3 years ago

Ich nehme ihm das ab: Söder ist ein selbstverliebtes Arschloch!

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lobster_irl 16 points 3 years ago

Photographic memory!

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lobster_irl 12 points 3 years ago

I don’t think it’s weird but it’s hurtful and I think you should make an effort to stop. Like the others said anyone who grew up in the 2000s probably had a phase where they said it constantly.

To give you some perspective, I did and I found out that my brother was gay later. I still cringe at the things I said when we were kids and wish I could go back in time and slap myself… he doesn’t hold it against me but it doesn’t matter, when you grow up you start taking responsibility for what you say and do and to make sure your words reflect your ethics. If you’re not a homophobe then stop saying homophobic shit yo!

I can see how you maybe never had a lot of external pressure to stop but just imagine that it’s likely that there’s at least one person you know who is in the closet and you owe it to them to do better!

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lobster_irl 11 points 3 years ago

I don’t think so because they can just crawl the fediverse now without threads as far as I’m aware. We’re all posting publicly right?

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lobster_irl 8 points 3 years ago

I feel they are both being very selfish about this, sorry this is happening to you :( Sounds like they want you to pretend you’re fine so they can stop thinking about it or feeling guilty but space seems like the best idea here…

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lobster_irl 6 points 3 years ago

Ahhh yeah me too :( Incidentally I also swapped to Pathfinder 2e only a few months before leaving reddit and we’re having a lot of fun in our campaign!

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lobster_irl 6 points 3 years ago

This exact thing happened to several people in my parents friend group… it didn’t work out a single time. Whatever issues you have with your wife, work on them or break up but don’t get together with the new lady before you figure out why you would ever think these feelings were anything other than infatuation. I know that sounds harsh but I’ve literally seen this again and again and everytime people got hurt very badly.

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lobster_irl 6 points 3 years ago

This is awesome! I miss the many parenting subreddits I used to visit! I think allowing or encouraging pics is a recipe for disaster though…

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lobster_irl 6 points 3 years ago

I‘m a particilurker xD

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lobster_irl 5 points 3 years ago

Yeah even decades later my brain still freezes when I say eagle in English because Igel is hedgehog in German and pronounced the same.

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lobster_irl 5 points 3 years ago

NatWest in the Uk does it for both the password and the pin, has been since I signed up like 10 years ago. I assumed they do it so you don’t enter a full password that someone could access later. No idea how they work out but they are big and I assume if it was insecure they’d have had issues by now. I assume they store the letter groupings in advance.

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lobster_irl 4 points 3 years ago

A poop before day 3 keeps the doctor away!

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lobster_irl 4 points 3 years ago

Are some of those beans made out of beans? 😱

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lobster_irl 4 points 3 years ago

Very enjoyable read!!

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lobster_irl 4 points 3 years ago

Haha same for me, I was like… ok? No coughing, no buzz, just a very familiar taste and meh.

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lobster_irl 3 points 3 years ago

Seconded! I think at some point I even had it rubbing on wayland

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lobster_irl 3 points 3 years ago

Crazy that that hasn’t become an issue for them yet! Thanks for the tips! I used to be pretty bad with my passwords but I’m reformed and using KeePass for everything these days.

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lobster_irl 2 points 3 years ago

Omg great idea! Probably a stupid question but how did you contribute - through an app or from desktop, through the website?

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thanks for using Leebra!

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