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@lemmy.world

solarbabies 62 points 2 years ago

MAPs are pedos who don't like being called pedos. It stands for "minor attracted person".

Chronically online pedos invented this term because they want pedophilia to be recognized as a sexuality or a type of neurodivergence so that it would be protected under the same laws as other sexualities and/or mental disorders.

In other words it's their attempt to claim they have no choice but to engage in child abuse. Anyone who insists on using the term MAP is probably also a pedo.

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solarbabies 61 points 2 years ago

I might be wrong but I don't think the commenter was joking. It's not a joke to say a lot of politicians have been assassinated and to question how someone in such a situation managed to get safely elected. I wonder the same thing.

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solarbabies 33 points 2 years ago

for real, I'm pro trans rights and I still sometimes accidentally deadname Elliot Page because I have dyscalculia. if you ban me for that aren't you being ableist?

also yes context is very important.

if I say "when Caitlyn went by the name [X], and she used [Y] pronoun, [Z] thing happened to [Y]", I assume I will still get banned for deadnaming even though I'm innocently adding clarity to a conversation.

to make things worse, if someone is trans and gender fluid, and I call them by a name or pronoun they used last time I knew about them, now I've committed a crime of which I had no knowledge.

this blanket condemnation of deadnaming is just dumb. it requires nuance.

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solarbabies 31 points 3 years ago

keep in mind there is no such thing as an HPV test for AMABs (it doesn't exist), so how do they expect to enforce it for anyone but women/AFABs? hard to deny that they are being targeted here

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solarbabies 26 points 2 years ago

Hey, that's my favorite System of a Down lyric!

All research and successful health policies show

That walking should be increased

And law enforcement decreased while abolishing

Mandatory minimum parking spots

I buy my crack, I smack my bitch

Right here in Hollywood

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solarbabies 21 points 3 years ago

Until a mental health issue has been concretely determined, I believe it's somewhat irresponsible to toss the idea around that it's the underlying root cause for this obscene behavior.

Religion, like other dogmas, has historically empowered and continues to empower a lot of otherwise mentally healthy people to feel okay doing plenty of fucked up shit, simply because religion said it's okay to do it.

Ever heard of the Stanford Prisoner Experiment? Many "normal" people will do terrible things if simply given permission.

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solarbabies 20 points 3 years ago

I'm sure the therapist did say something like "think about forgiveness towards Taylor" and he, being delusional, interpreted it as "I need to write my feelings in a song and send it to her so she can finally understand why she caused me pain, and only then, if she responds positively, I'll forgive her."

Any person practiced in forgiveness knows the act doesn't involve the other person at all, and isn't conditionally based on them doing anything.

It is a choice you make internally within yourself, by accepting they have hurt you and choosing not to hold on to the negative feeling of resentment.

Viola Davis is often quoted as saying, "forgiveness is giving up hope that the past could've been different."

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solarbabies 19 points 3 years ago

not recently, the law was passed 160 years ago and this month the state supreme court has now decided to enact it... is there any meaningful difference or do you just like to hear yourself talk?

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solarbabies 18 points 3 years ago

they outlawed are trying & succeeding to make illegal (already passed the state legislature) the "intentional or reckless" spread of the virus without defining what "reckless" means

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solarbabies 17 points 2 years ago

Please no one tell them and let them drink their raw milk and get avian flu and perish.

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solarbabies 15 points 2 years ago

Great stuff! Disappointing that the article didn't mention how they managed to get on the tarmac.

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solarbabies 15 points 2 years ago

Google Messages app already falls back to SMS automatically if RCS fails. SMS is not going anywhere.

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solarbabies 14 points 3 years ago

and what's the legal definition of "recklessly" in this context? who knows, leave it up to corrupt judges to decide...

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solarbabies 13 points 2 years ago

Humans also fart methane, is that a reason not to ride them?

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solarbabies 13 points 2 years ago

wow aren't you just a ray of sunshine.

what does that have to do with deadnaming people?

I guess you're the expert here since you Googled a condition & now you know everything there is to know about it, right?

let me break it down. over 12 years ago when I was diagnosed, among the better-known symptoms like mixing up numbers, "misremembering names" (especially those that start with the same letter/sound) was a frequently published symptom of dyscalculia (and dyslexia, FWIW):

fast forward to 2013, in the DSM-5 they changed the definition of dyslexia and dyscalculia, removed them as diagnoses and instead replaced them with a more general diagnosis: "Specific Learning Disorder", which among other things now requires that a person is "unable to perform academically at a level appropriate to their intelligence and age."

in my opinion, and this is just my non-professional opinion:

  1. if I tell someone I have a "Specific Learning Disorder" they'll generally have no idea what I'm talking about. it's easier and feels more self-consistent to tell them the name of the condition I was diagnosed with, even if it's outdated.

  2. the new DSM-5 diagnosis doesn't account for people like me who were able to excel academically despite difficulty with numbers and names. did I have to read numbers 10+ times to make sure I knew I had the right one? yes. do I still struggle immensely to do basic arithmetic in my head? absolutely. am I also a software engineer who sometimes has to work with numbers? yes. did I get straight A's in all my math classes? yes. people with dyslexia and dyscalculia excel all the time by discovering and using their own coping mechanisms, so this diagnosis seems overly reductive to me.

again, I'm not a professional. is it possible that my symptoms which were previously attributed to dyscalculia are just a part of my ASD? sure. but I'm pretty sure if I said I have trouble remembering Elliot Page's name because I'm autistic, people still wouldn't know what I was talking about, and I'd have an even harder time explaining it. so there you go.

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solarbabies 13 points 3 years ago

more of these stream of consciousness style comments lol

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solarbabies 12 points 2 years ago

Lol you're not wrong it's just funny that rather than upholding quality standards Google is injecting it straight into the top of your search results.

It's hilariously bad that they don't care it's literally conflicting with itself. This came up for me yesterday:

Is the 9th triangular number 36 or 45? who knows?

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solarbabies 11 points 2 years ago

this! don't get me wrong, I like a nice man butt as much as the next pansexual guy, but if I'm gonna look at someone's backside for a 40 hour campaign, I'd rather it be a woman's.

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solarbabies 10 points 2 years ago

I see you got your food science degree from Trump University.

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solarbabies 9 points 3 years ago

abolishing corporate personhood would effectively do this, since that's the primary justification for legalizing corruption in the USA.

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thanks for using Leebra!

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