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stevestevesteve

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stevestevesteve 24 points 5 days ago

If you're gonna make the bathrooms gendered, at least include ACTUAL SIGNAGE with the artwork. Not every person who walks in there is going to know at a glance what this means nor do genital shapes equate to gender and bathroom choices

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stevestevesteve 7 points 4 days ago

"building a safer ecosystem"

I can't wait to be "safe" in my little prison cell.

How many people have been negatively affected by being able to sideload? Oh, zero? Cool. So how is this safer?

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stevestevesteve 6 points 4 days ago

You ever stop to consider that maybe you don't pass as your chosen gender to someone else? Let people use the public restrooms they want. Harassment and rape are crimes, police that all you want, but we don't need idiots getting bent out of shape and causing confrontations in restrooms because they believe they know better than the individuals who choose to present as a gender.

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stevestevesteve 5 points 4 days ago

I don't care. I don't have to use the womans bathroom

You're literally making my point for me. Let's say you, believing yourself a man, go to use the men's restroom. I look at you, see that you look "chestier" than my idea of a man, and you're in the men's restroom!! Now I start screaming about you harassing me in my gender's restroom. You need to leave!!!! If you're a man, strip naked and prove it!

How fucking stupid. Nobody needs to be policing people's appearances in what should be a pretty safe place. Don't hassle anyone in the bathroom, whether you think they look more like a man or a woman at a glance.

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stevestevesteve 5 points 4 days ago

Bringing false outrage and making up anecdotes doesn't rise to the level of ending the story. You are the delusional one. Show me realistic evidence of these hundreds of thousands of daily incidents and maybe we can talk. Your words are harming women in the here and now.

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stevestevesteve 5 points 4 days ago

I'm affected by it in the here and now, on a daily basis, by the policies that are implemented by fearful morons. Not by some imaginary "almost raped!!" nonsense that you're bringing into it. You and people who think like you are the oppressors, not the oppressed.

To think that when I say "let's use actual signage" you cry rape is fucking ludicrous. Get the fuck out of here with these obviously disingenuous arguments.

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stevestevesteve 3 points 4 days ago

I didn't invert the genders. I was talking about specifically him as he is, a man.

Yes, it is equally as insane if a woman is pushed out of the women's restroom for looking too masculine. I'm not sure what point you're arguing though.

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stevestevesteve 3 points 4 days ago

you and your insane views.

Yes, "don't harass anyone in the bathroom" and "if you're going to gender bathrooms, put an actual sign on the door" are both insane views aren't they?

You need to stop weaponising fear and get ahold of yourself.

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stevestevesteve 2 points 4 days ago

Which wouldn’t be a problem

I don't think you understand. I'm talking about YOU. A man. getting pushed out of the men's restroom for looking too "feminine." You wouldn't have a problem with that? https://www.amazon.com/dp/1338798618 I'll leave this here for you in case you want to brush up.

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stevestevesteve 2 points 4 days ago

Quick recap here to help you "understand the simplest concepts":

  • I said we should put signs on gendered bathroom doors, since not everyones genitals look the same and gender doesn't equate to genitals.
  • You replied that gender "mostly" equates to genitals.
  • Someone else said that's no reason for non-inclusivity
  • You said your girlfriend got "almost raped" by a trans person and nobody's allowed to argue until they are almost raped too
  • I said we're all affected by this kind of vitriol on a daily basis
  • You said trans women harassing cis women is "the reality hundreds of thousands, if not millions of women" and made more unsubstantiated claims of harassment
  • I asked for some real evidence of these hundreds of thousands of even millions of women getting harassed by trans women on a regular basis.
  • You refused to to produce any evidence of that and instead called me a delusional, misogynistic clown.
  • I continued to restate my primary argument in the post: Let's put signs on doors if we're going to pointlessly gender the rooms they lead to, and asked how you'd feel being pushed out of your own gender's space.
  • You are saying harassment of men "wouldn't be a problem" and continued to say that I'm the delusional one.

I'd be more than willing to see any evidence that cis women are, by hundreds of thousands or millions, harassed by trans women in bathrooms. I can provide evidence that trans women are, by hundreds of thousands, harassed by cis people. You know, the REAL, ACTUALLY EXISTING damage that YOU are continuing to cause.

So you're still arguing against putting gender signs on gendered bathrooms I guess? What is actually wrong with you, dude?

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stevestevesteve 2 points 5 days ago

Oh why would I need to wait for that to discuss inclusivity?

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stevestevesteve 1 point 4 days ago

Yes, women's bathrooms are for women. That's why I'm saying we should write "women" on the door if we're pointlessly gendering bathrooms anyway. Having a flower on the door is only going to INCREASE these issues, not decrease them, you "clown." You don't like me because I'm pointing out your false statements

Not only that, but not every women has a vagina, and certainly not every woman has a flowery one. Putting genital depictions on doors doesn't help women, it harms them (just like it does to men...). How is that hard to see?

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stevestevesteve 1 point 4 days ago
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stevestevesteve 1 point 5 days ago

It could literally be the unconditional surrender of the entire usa and it still wouldn't be worse than I thought.

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stevestevesteve 266 points 5 months ago

And of course that error code just means "there was an issue with the store" WOW THANKS SO MUCH DETAIL TO GO OFF OF

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stevestevesteve 236 points 25 days ago

Well the gas would be cheaper if they could somehow make it contain advertising and data theft

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stevestevesteve 216 points 2 years ago

The mantle is between 500-4500K, meaning most of it is hot enough to glow at least a dull red.

You don't say lava is black because once it cools down it turns black...

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stevestevesteve 209 points 10 months ago

"well baby snoop it's called adoption" as if they'd have a problem explaining little orphan Annie or Stuart little or any number of adopted children

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stevestevesteve 161 points a year ago

God damn why's the world so shit

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stevestevesteve 143 points 3 years ago

This is why I haaaate "today I learned" posts sourced from a cheesy interview. Some exaggerated or even sarcastic statement gets spun into absolute truth and it's pervasive

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