Ya, that read more like hate towards LGBT than anything else..

You won't be able to login to other servers. You will, however, be able to interact with others servers from beehaw. For example, if you search for "technology", you will see beehaw.org/c/technology@lemmy.ml, and you can subscribe, post, upvote, etc.. All from beehaw.

I wonder if there is enough of a community for a /c/chess.

Yes, I agree. Please go.