Mid 20s here, this is what I've ended up at too. I prioritize how much each thing needs to be done and then force myself through 1-2, sometimes even 3 as early in the morning as I can. Otherwise it doesn’t get done
ExclamatoryProdundity 8 points 3 years ago
Commenting so I can upvote your comment because Memmy covers up the button. Here’s hoping we all become our best selves. Even Memmy.
doppelgangmember 4 points 3 years ago
Big fan of Connect for Lemmy on Android
ExclamatoryProdundity 2 points 3 years ago
I use voyager, Lemmy and Avelon. They could all use improvements but each are slowly getting there.
Catoblepas 3 points 3 years ago
That and halfassing are totally valid ways of getting shit done. Halfassing is better than nothing on almost everything.
FlickOfTheBean 39 points 3 years ago
I've found the closest thing to a panacea for this is a mixture of willingness to fail and self forgiveness for falling off the horse. Everyday is a new opportunity to get back on it. And if you're not feeling it today, it's generally ok to just wait until tomorrow (this works for me because I have to be very gentle to myself sometimes, idk if this part will work for everyone. You kind of have to [or at least, I have to] address all the other potential issues, like anxiety or depression, before the motivation to do stuff follows).
Idk why I'm posting this on a shitpost, but if it helps even one person, seems like it's worth posting.
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dangblingus 11 points 3 years ago
Then you need to try habit stacking. Add 1 thing to your routine a month. 28 days to form a habit, so don't bite off an entire new lifestyle, CREATE the lifestyle over a year.
Chadus_Maximus 9 points 3 years ago
Worked extremely well until I had to change jobs. The house of cards instantly collapsed :(
The same thing happened during the pandemic, too. Just have to accept that at some point it all comes crashing down.
HeyThisIsntTheYMCA 3 points 3 years ago
I learned to ride that wave. It's kind of fun.
SoleInvictus 3 points 3 years ago
I never heard of this but looked it up because of your comment. I like it!
dangblingus 4 points 3 years ago
Worked for me! Got me from alcoholic party dude with nothing going on to college graduate who has a relatively decent/stable income and now I can actually plan fun things to do instead of just look for the night's drinking buddy. You never stop growing/learning so just keep at it!
BarrelAgedBoredom 2 points 3 years ago
I have it on good authority that it will infact be tomorrow
Aesthesiaphilia 3 points 3 years ago
One day she'll finally get the mental energy to use that axe and then we'll all be in danger.
vzq 2 points 3 years ago
Amanda Fucking Palmer had a song about that. I love it.
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I was like that when I was young. Now all my plans involve me forcing myself to do 1 or 2 productive things a day besides the stuff I have to do, and then just calling it a day and pushing aside the rest of the stuff I probably should do till tomorrow. Or more realistically, the next weekend or holiday.
I don't lie to myself anymore, I just admit that if it's not 100% vital, it won't get done quick, if at all.
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