Irl I'm very closeted, so I use my fursona as a way to be what I can't be irl. I kinda wish I was as effeminate as my chars tbh
Gradually_Adjusting 8 points 2 years ago
Ganbatte
TotallynotJessica 24 points 2 years ago
sitting here too lazy to shave; real
Swedneck 9 points 2 years ago
fwiw there's hair removal creams that straight up fucking DISSOLVES the hair, it won't remove it forever but it'll have to grow back from the follicle so you'll be hairless for a lot longer than with shaving.
also epilators that physically yank the hair out of the follicle, if you don't mind it hurting a bit..
djsoren19 2 points 2 years ago
Do you have any recommendations? I'd love to be able to apply a cream and not have to shave for like an extra week. My facial hair looks like dogshit and grows super patchy, but it grows quickly in those patches.
FlihpFlorp 13 points 2 years ago
Well just follow the logic of âon the internet no one knows your a dogâ or something
VinesNFluff 5 points 2 years ago
Don't call me out like that ;-;
dwindling7373 3 points 2 years ago
You are online persona.
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