Only if I've never emailed that person before. Otherwise I look up what phrase they used in our last conversation and use that.
Halasham 16 points 3 years ago
"Thanks, it's a constant act that causes me no end of stress and anxiety about the quality of the performance and leaves me feeling like my face is just a mask... but it's nice to know it's at least working."
QueenCrimson 14 points 3 years ago
I have no idea why anyone would ever think "hey you don't match my negative stereotypes about x" would be an ok and sensible thing to say, really with regards to anything, not just autism, sexuality etc.
Seven 2 points 3 years ago
if someone says this to you, respond with "And you don't look that neurotypical."
If they make an annoyed grunt, they are most likely not someone sensible. If they make a guiltful sign, than they realised how off that phrase was.
Fight fire with fire.
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@lemmy.world
10497
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3540
This is a community for people with Autism to be themselves. All neurotypes are welcome.
Community: ::: spoiler Values
- Acceptance
- Openness
- Understanding
- Equality
- Reciprocity
- Mutuality
- Love :::
Rules
- No abusive, derogatory, or offensive post/comments e.g: racism, sexism, religious hatred, homophobia, gatekeeping, trolling.
- Posts do not need be related to autism, off-topic discussions are allowed. This is a safe space where people with autism can feel comfortable discussing whatever they feel like discussing, as long as it does not violate the standing rules.
- Do not request donations.
- Be respectful in discussions.
- Do not post misinformation.
- Mark NSFW content accordingly.
- Do not promote Autism Speaks.
- General Lemmy World rules.
- No bots. Humans only.
Encouraged
- Open acceptance of all autism levels as a respectable neurotype.
- Funny memes.
- Respectful venting.
- Describe posts of pictures/memes using text in the body for our visually impaired users.
- Welcoming and accepting attitudes.
- Questions regarding autism.
- Questions on confusing situations.
- Seeking and sharing support.
- Engagement in our community's values.
- Expressing a difference of opinion without directly insulting another user.
- Please report questionable posts and let the mods deal with it.
.
Helpful Resources
- Are you seeking education, support groups, and more? Take a look at our list of helpful resources.
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That's why I always end my emails with "regards".
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