41 young males die in South Africa after circumcision initiation ceremonies

8 months ago by OutForARip to c/world

Traditional initiation is a rite of passage into manhood for young males that is practiced by various ethnic groups in Africa, including parts of South Africa. Among them are the Xhosa, Ndebele, Sotho and Venda communities.
OutForARip 137 points 8 months ago

Dear World: Stop mutilating children's genitals.

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Archangel1313 -75 points 8 months ago

You should really try reading your own article. These boys died from negligence and unsafe conditions...all of which are avoidable. Keep your bigotry out of it.

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OutForARip 115 points 8 months ago

These boys died from an unnecessary procedure that should never have been performed on a child who cannot consent. Keep your child abuse out of it.

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Archangel1313 -54 points 8 months ago

I get that it's hard for you to accept other people's cultural identities, but that's no excuse to call it child abuse. The issue here is performing a rather simple procedure without proper training or adherence to basic safety standards.

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OutForARip 59 points 8 months ago

Culture does not excuse child abuse. If they truly want to go through with this, let them do so as adults with minds that are fully developed.

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forrgott 40 points 8 months ago

The "procedure" you're referring to is, by definition, genital mutilation. Which is intentionally inflicting trauma on a child. That is child abuse.

If they were truly able to consent (which is not possible due to power imbalance), then maybe you'd have an argument. Maybe. But the truth is this "procedure" is for the express purpose of forcing puritanical beliefs and lifestyle into another. So, again, its literally child abuse.

Believing that your religious views override any of this? That's bigotry.

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LavaPlanet 28 points 8 months ago

It is child abuse. You only do it because it's always been done before. That's what cultural means. You have No reason, other than, we've always done it, so we can never rethink it. That's what you're saying. Never question the reason. Don't think about if it's right or wrong, it's "cultural" therefore we just do it blindly without questioning. And you, the person acting blindly, following cruel practices, just because they've always been done, thinks you're in the right, and everyone who can think for themselves and question things, is just wrong. You know that's delusional, right.

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cassandrafatigue 24 points 8 months ago

The culture I'm from is mostly fucked up shit.

Just because it's traditional does not mean it isn't fucked up shit. Could I be wrong because I don't know the context? Totally! But melanin is just color, not inherent fucking virtue. Don't fetishize other cultures. They could suck as much as yours.

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AstaKask 18 points 8 months ago

If your cultural identity is child abuse, go fuck yourself.

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PsycyTuna 15 points 8 months ago

I get that it's hard for you to call if for what it is, but it is genital mutilation. There's zero need for it. They can't consent to it.

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SereneSadie 14 points 8 months ago
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prole 13 points 8 months ago

If you define your cultural identity by the need to unnecessarily mutilate the genitals of children, then your culture is shit and does not deserve respect or acceptance.

Take a step back and consider what it is you're defending here.

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cassandrafatigue 6 points 8 months ago

Its a cultural institution to rape children in TERF islander private schools.

Tell me why this is different, admit you're a disingenuous lying fuck defending sick shit for made up dogmatic reasons you have no understanding of, or admit you're a pedophile.

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horseloaf 62 points 8 months ago

Genital mutilation is also avoidable.

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Archangel1313 -33 points 8 months ago

Using derogatory terms like that is what makes it bigotry.

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Korhaka 39 points 8 months ago

Please point to the derogatory word in the sentence

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Rhoeri 3 points 8 months ago path: 0 21315423 21315899 21316115 21316328 21325906, hotness: undefined, score: 3, children: 0
Ach 46 points 8 months ago

It's not bigotry to be opposed to genital mutilation.

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Archangel1313 -22 points 8 months ago

Using the term "mutilation" to describe someone's perfectly healthy penis, is a form of bigotry.

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Ach 33 points 8 months ago

There is zero biological reason to remove foreskin. It's objectively mutilation.

I'm circumsized. I did not give anyone permission to remove a part of my penis that was perfectly healthy when I was an infant and could not consent. I want you to quantify to me how I was not done wrong, and how my bodily autonomy was not violated. I understand that isn't the case in the article, but it's the perfect example for you to argue.

Also, just because a culture or religion does something doesn't mean I have to support it, and it definitely doesn't make me a bigot to oppose it. Iran will stone women to death under Sharia Law. Am I a bigot for saying stoning women is bad?

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prole 32 points 8 months ago

As someone who is perfectly comfortable with his circumcized penis: it's absolutely mutilation.

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Zetta 15 points 8 months ago

Plural mutilations

Synonyms of mutilation

1

: an act or instance of destroying, removing, or severely damaging a limb or other body part of a person or animal

https://www.merriam-webster.com/...

Circumcision is literally a textbook example of the word multilation

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Lemminary 12 points 8 months ago

I don't think "healthy" describes the loss of sensitivity, slight deformity, scars, and unease I have about mine. And mine was done for medical reasons when there were other alternatives. Mutilation does feel more accurate.

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butwhyishischinabook 42 points 8 months ago

"Stop cutting off the foreskin of literal children and barely-not-children."

"BIGOT!"

-some idiot

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forrgott 41 points 8 months ago

So, not mutilating kids' genitals is...bigotry???

Fuck no. Like, seriously, your position is factually incorrect. And, frankly, the tone of superiority makes you sound, well, like a fucking bigot.

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Archangel1313 -25 points 8 months ago

Using the term "mutilation" to describe a minor surgical procedure, due to your own cultural biases, is what makes it bigotry.

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cassandrafatigue 9 points 8 months ago

Is not doing things to children's (or anyone's) bodies without their consent (which they may not be capable of, depending on what for) is a cost? Like, if you were designing a society, would the 'stuff done to the bodies of children (or fucking anyone) without their consent' number be one you're proud of making smaller?

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prole 3 points 8 months ago

What does the term "mutilation" actually mean in your mind?

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PumpUpTheJam 37 points 8 months ago

Don't touch their junk and there's no article.

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Archangel1313 -27 points 8 months ago

Check your bigotry, and there is no outrage.

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PumpUpTheJam 5 points 8 months ago

👍

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Agent641 29 points 8 months ago

All unnessecary child genital mutilation is fucked up, even when done in the USA or any other country, whether for religious or parental choice reasons. The only appropriate circumcision is for direct medical intervention or by the informed consent of the gentals' owner.

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gramie 3 points 8 months ago

Please ceremonies are usually performed on older adolescent or young adult males. It marks the change from child to adulthood.

Not that I'm in favor of it in any case, but it's not being done on infants, like in North America.

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Sunshine 23 points 8 months ago

Intersex infants having surgeries forced upon them is morally wrong.

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Korhaka 3 points 8 months ago

I am curious now, what is usually done in this case?

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Sunshine 15 points 8 months ago

The doctor forces down vuvloplasty and calls the baby a girl because people are afraid of unique plumbing.

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Dasus 1 point 8 months ago

They essentially flip a coin and then go with one.

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Archangel1313 -24 points 8 months ago

I guess you also disagree with doing any surgery on infants, for the same reason?

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Sunshine 38 points 8 months ago

Here we go with the intentional misunderstanding. Stop mutilating the private parts of infants.

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Rhoeri 9 points 8 months ago

Unnecessary procedures to mutilate the body are morally and ethically wrong regardless of the age of the patient.

For fucks sake. How on earth can you be in defense of this abuse? Please, explain why you support this.

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wolfeh 20 points 8 months ago

Archangel1313... are you okay? Is everything good? I don't see how not wanting people to mutilate other people's genitals is bigotry. Or is this a disingenuous "parents' rights" argument?

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Rhoeri 12 points 8 months ago

So now imagine if that “ritual” never took place-

if in said imagination, you can see that those boys would still be alive, then I’d say you’re half way there.

You’ll be all the way there when you are able to come to this conclusion all on your own.

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Archangel1313 -8 points 8 months ago

These boys would still be alive if they had had the procedure done by an actual medical professional, in an actual medical clinic.

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Rhoeri 14 points 8 months ago

Imagine taking a pro-circumcision stance in the comments of an article where 41 boys died as a result of the procedure- all while fully KNOWING that in this day and age, it is a brutal and absolutely unnecessary thing to do begin with.

Those boys would still be alive if assholes stoped butchering children’s genitalia.

END OF DEBATE.

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black_flag_astronaut 2 points 8 months ago
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Maeve 1 point 8 months ago

There are valid reasons for parents to choose circumcision. I'm not sure religion is a part of that, and I'm not sure that it isn't. For example, if this were female circumcision based strictly on religion or culture, I'd feel very strongly against it, since it's to curb pleasure and often leads to infection, from bodily fluids not being able to exit. However, malformed genetalia can also cause complications.

I'm glad I never had to choose gender assignment or not because children in middle school can be cruel, so can misassignment, and as we see, adults can be cruel too.

I posit perhaps such complicated decisions not be based entirely on religion or cultural identity of the parents alone, since what the child chooses as an adult may be very different than what the parent prefers.

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forrgott 13 points 8 months ago

There are valid reasons for parents to choose circumcision.

I don't believe this is true.

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frongt 1 point 8 months ago path: 0 21315423 21315899 21317016 21317294 21319616, hotness: undefined, score: 1, children: 2
Maeve -3 points 8 months ago

Kidney issues, prone to UTI, etc.

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hexdream 17 points 8 months ago

it seems a lot of commenters are missing that these are not babies. Those in the story are aged 16+ and it is a cultural rite of passage.

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Deceptichum 16 points 8 months ago
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CannonFodder 0 points 8 months ago

So at 16 they shouldn't be able to choose what they do with their own dicks? How would this apply if they were trans and wanted bottom surgery? How does it apply to getting one's ears pierced?

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CreativeShotgun 3 points 8 months ago

Trans people go through long processes and professional oversight to arrive at medical intervention in professional settings. Bottom surgery is not taken lightly in the same way that later in life circumcision should be and should be consented to. Ear piercings are largely inconsequential although I strongly disagree with piercing unwilling children.

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AstaKask 5 points 8 months ago

A shitty pedo culture*

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Mycatiskai 3 points 8 months ago

Some of the arrest were parents who lied to have it done before their children were 16+ so they were in fact 15.

Not to trust Google entirely but it says that anyone younger than 18 is considered a child in South Africa.

If that is the case then anyone below 18 cannot consent to sex, if they can't consent to sex then they can't consent to surgery or medical procedures. Their parents should not be making the choice for them, it is bodily autonomy for them to choose for themselves when they are a legal adult and not before.

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HisArmsOpen 16 points 8 months ago

Without nauseating anyone, the tribal methodology really is quite painful and barbaric. A lot of skin is taken.

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AnUnusualRelic 6 points 8 months ago

Well, you know what they say, what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. And if it kills you, well, tough.

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ghen 3 points 8 months ago

Yo, Evil Boy, why is your incanca so big? All the better to love you with!

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knexcar 3 points 8 months ago

Backwards country gonna backwards.

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Dasus 1 point 8 months ago

I think any country that regularly practices mutilation of children's genitals is backwards.

And yes, that very much includes the US.

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knexcar 1 point 7 months ago

To be fair, genital mutilation is probably the least of America’s worries at this point, they should see about fixing their monthly school shooting “surprises” first.

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Dasus 1 point 7 months ago

Well it's among the more minor issues currently when looking at the big picture, sure.

But you know, save the dicks as well, when you're saving the dicks.

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dajoho 2 points 8 months ago
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hexdream 2 points 8 months ago

I only offered a little context. Please dont assume my position on the practice.

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Kacarott 5 points 8 months ago

I think you misplaced your reply

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